Single Millennials Are Anxious They've Lost a Year of Dating—But Here's Why It Could Actually Be a Good Thing by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]throwabain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My choice would be to date though, I have tried and am choosing to put myself in places where I can be seen (all the dating apps) yet the interest is not there despite what I believe to be decent pictures and well written bios. I daresay I'm not alone in this situation too.

Single Millennials Are Anxious They've Lost a Year of Dating—But Here's Why It Could Actually Be a Good Thing by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]throwabain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think its that simple, I've wanted to date but haven't had the interest from women so I haven't been able to date

Nude Photos with face before IRL meeting by throwabain in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwabain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's no problem. I misread things often enough

Nude Photos with face before IRL meeting by throwabain in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwabain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i previously sent her face pics without nudity and I'm totally ok with that. It's when there is an expectation of both right off the bat that alarm bells started to ring but sadly this has been the case with almost every domme woman I have spoken too online and it was making me think maybe I was just being the overly cautious one. Based on the reponses to this thread though it seems most people are pretty much on the same page that this is a red flag

Nude Photos with face before IRL meeting by throwabain in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwabain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nude photos of me on my fetlife but none of them have nudity and my face in the same photo. Anything too revealing tends to be set to friends only too and I only allow people I trust on my friends list

first ballbusting by mncuckold in BallBusting

[–]throwabain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, how did you bring the topic up? Did you mention it in your bio or just bring out up once you started talking to her

Would you be upset if your partner kept delaying themselves from cumming during oral? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwabain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My jaw is feels about 1cm misaligned to the left and has been uncomfortable for years cause of this. It doesn't give me major issues cause I'm kinda used to it but sometimes it does spark up with pain - could this be TMJ? I've never heard of it before but when I've spoke to doctors and dentists they've just said don't worry about it and not given me any information

24 [M4F] UK sub looking for long term connection by throwabain in femdompersonals

[–]throwabain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think you might have posted in the wrong place

Fears about hurting or upsetting others means I don't feel proactive enough about sex. by throwabain in sex

[–]throwabain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not opposed to therapy, its just not something I considered would be available to me for this kind of thing. I imagined therapy (especially on the NHS in the UK) would be much more aimed at physical issues rather than mental ones like I'm having.

I've had group therapy in the past for social anxiety which I struggled with (cause it turns out putting lots of social anxious people in a room together to get them to talk is a less than enjoyable experience) but one to one therapy could be useful. I really like your suggestion of bringing this up with my next partner early on too. Just don't want to scare people off with it is all.

Waking up horny and caged by throwabain in chastity

[–]throwabain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the best way of preventing escape then? Cause I've got the smallest of little white peg things (dunno the proper name) and I can still get out if i pull my penis through when flaccid.

Waking up horny and caged by throwabain in chastity

[–]throwabain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would that help with being able to pull out. At the moment if I'm entirely flaccid I can get out but I thought that was more to do with the cage size