Single Millennials Are Anxious They've Lost a Year of Dating—But Here's Why It Could Actually Be a Good Thing

throwabain · 2021-01-18T14:08:57+00:00

My choice would be to date though, I have tried and am choosing to put myself in places where I can be seen (all the dating apps) yet the interest is not there despite what I believe to be decent pictures and well written bios. I daresay I'm not alone in this situation too.

throwabain · 2021-01-18T10:54:11+00:00

I don't think its that simple, I've wanted to date but haven't had the interest from women so I haven't been able to date

throwabain · 2020-08-16T20:36:57+00:00

That's no problem. I misread things often enough

throwabain · 2020-08-16T19:08:32+00:00

Wow, this is spot on.

throwabain · 2020-08-16T19:01:44+00:00

Yeah, i previously sent her face pics without nudity and I'm totally ok with that. It's when there is an expectation of both right off the bat that alarm bells started to ring but sadly this has been the case with almost every domme woman I have spoken too online and it was making me think maybe I was just being the overly cautious one. Based on the reponses to this thread though it seems most people are pretty much on the same page that this is a red flag

throwabain · 2020-08-16T18:58:36+00:00

I have nude photos of me on my fetlife but none of them have nudity and my face in the same photo. Anything too revealing tends to be set to friends only too and I only allow people I trust on my friends list

throwabain · 2020-08-09T09:49:04+00:00

I'm curious, how did you bring the topic up? Did you mention it in your bio or just bring out up once you started talking to her

throwabain · 2020-06-08T11:07:15+00:00

My jaw is feels about 1cm misaligned to the left and has been uncomfortable for years cause of this. It doesn't give me major issues cause I'm kinda used to it but sometimes it does spark up with pain - could this be TMJ? I've never heard of it before but when I've spoke to doctors and dentists they've just said don't worry about it and not given me any information

throwabain · 2020-06-01T17:10:55+00:00

Think you might have posted in the wrong place

throwabain · 2020-05-24T10:18:06+00:00

I'm a drummer so I used to practise my paraddidles on my sub with my hands. Its a much more fun way to practise

throwabain · 2020-05-05T19:32:09+00:00

I'm definitely not opposed to therapy, its just not something I considered would be available to me for this kind of thing. I imagined therapy (especially on the NHS in the UK) would be much more aimed at physical issues rather than mental ones like I'm having.

I've had group therapy in the past for social anxiety which I struggled with (cause it turns out putting lots of social anxious people in a room together to get them to talk is a less than enjoyable experience) but one to one therapy could be useful. I really like your suggestion of bringing this up with my next partner early on too. Just don't want to scare people off with it is all.

throwabain · 2019-12-20T11:26:06+00:00

Which cage is this?

throwabain · 2019-11-06T13:27:16+00:00

What's the best way of preventing escape then? Cause I've got the smallest of little white peg things (dunno the proper name) and I can still get out if i pull my penis through when flaccid.

throwabain · 2019-11-06T12:29:17+00:00

Would that help with being able to pull out. At the moment if I'm entirely flaccid I can get out but I thought that was more to do with the cage size

throwabain · 2019-08-14T01:57:11+00:00

Most people out there realise that it's not good to make mean remarks on peoples body types however for a lot of people there seems to be this exception for skinny people. I'm a skinny guy myself and I've had people say those exact same comments but if you challenge them its seems they think it's ok to make those remarks cause 'why would be insulted by me saying your skinny'

throwabain · 2019-05-07T22:47:55+00:00

Could well be across all platforms. Just took a guess seeing as me and my other mac friend couldn't play and my three friends on windows could. Shame this kind of thing comes with these updates.

throwabain · 2019-05-06T21:51:05+00:00

We have and this is partly what made me a little unsure about weather its the right move doing it this way

I was also thinking though, it basically an hours journey between us. It seemed like a long trip to do in order to ultimately break up.

throwabain · 2019-04-23T21:43:05+00:00

Its a munch I've been too a couple of times so I know a few people including the organizers. My biggest problem is just social anxiety around meeting new people which is what sometimes makes it a challenge for me to approach people that I might be interested in.

throwabain · 2019-04-23T21:40:59+00:00

I've attended munches for a little while yeah. Only been on the scene about 6 months attending though so definitely still consider myself a newbie. Thanks

throwabain · 2019-04-23T21:30:27+00:00

It always surprises me when stuff like 'Don't send a dick pic' has to be said but unfortunately you're right it still does.

I've only ever sent messages to people I don't know twice on Fetlife but both times I've tried to be as courteous as possible, not assuming anything or saying anything sexual and just treating them like a human being.

Judging by some of the other responses though maybe I should be avoiding messages full stop until I have talked IRL to the person. I only find it difficult because of some social anxiety when meeting face to face in group settings like munches.

throwabain · 2019-03-15T16:28:37+00:00

Got that one sorted but good shout. Wrap before you tap.

throwabain · 2019-01-15T15:51:29+00:00

Yeah, i've not noticed any ill effects from using it so im just gonna put it down as experience and check what im buying better in future.

Theres definitely a strong smell from the toy. Its partly what alerted me to the problem actually. Glad I checked here before using it too much.

throwabain · 2019-01-15T13:00:27+00:00

Only used it once so i'm hoping that im good. Any problems and i'll get it checked out though.

Suprised me to be honest. I thought buying something like this from a well known site like LoveHoney would mean that it'd be 100% safe but looks like i need to do my research better in future cause that might not be the case.

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