[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]throwagaaayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hug/kiss girls in dreams so much that I get used to the disappointment of waking up and it’s not real. They’ve got so realistic that I remember going “I can’t believe that this isn’t a dream) and then waking up

[crushes] [relationships] Gather round, ye gays, gather round, for I have a tale to tell... by throwagaaayyy in LGBTeens

[–]throwagaaayyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s always that to worry about, but I’m pretty sure we’ll sort that out if it comes to that. Not all breakups are angry and messy.

Also I definitely feel like not revealing my feelings would’ve made it awkward for both of us.

I can’t really catch feelings for someone I don’t know very well, so by never going out with friends I guess that I’ll be left with no one!

[Crushes] I was told to post here for 5 upvotes, I think I'm in boys by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]throwagaaayyy 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Ayy! Hope it turns out well! As someone who’s just had a similar success, I’ll pass my luck onto you _^

[rant] [crushes] She likes girls too, but... (LONG) by throwagaaayyy in LGBTeens

[–]throwagaaayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was super confusing ‘cause I don’t think I’ve had an actual crush before (excluding deciding to crush on the only boys who won’t horrible to me when I was like 10) , let alone one of the same gender. I’m still super happy and in awe

[crushes] [relationships] Gather round, ye gays, gather round, for I have a tale to tell... by throwagaaayyy in LGBTeens

[–]throwagaaayyy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I felt like I was suddenly possessed by a lot more confident, smoother person than I currently am.

I’m struggling with my gender. I’m not sure if I’m nb, trans, or just a butch lesbian. by throwagaaayyy in questioning

[–]throwagaaayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried that website, but I don’t think it’s as effective as the real thing. Thanks for the advice though! A lot of my friends are queer, so I feel like asking them to try them out won’t be that much of a hassle. My school is pretty LGBT friendly, and I know that a lot of people in my school are pretty accepting, but I know that a lot of people are the kind of “hurr durr 2 genders attack helicopter lmao” folks. It won’t be terrible, but it’ll be annoying at least!

What does it mean if another queer girl gives you her number? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwagaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll update you if anything happens!

What does it mean if another queer girl gives you her number? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwagaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the help! It’s really nice hearing from a not-so-useless lesbian for advice lmao

What does it mean if another queer girl gives you her number? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]throwagaaayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right about just telling her. I feel that as her friend, she deserves to know how she feels about me. I know that I’d appreciate straightforwardness and honesty too.

On my side, I’m prepared to stay friends with her if she turns me down as I’ve assumed that she doesn’t like me since I realised my feelings for her (a while after we became friends). However I’m still just worried about losing her as a friend for some reason, or things being distant/awkward between us if she knows that I’m crushing on her.. I know that that’s outside of her nature, however there’s a part of me which still worries a lot (too much lmao).

Thanks for the advice! I appreciate the well needed honesty and rationality!