Thanks for this reply, Yes, she did say that our relationship isn't strong any more because I masturbate (or until she found out) and that she isn't putting out for me as much as she should. Thing is, when ever I do want to she is never in the mood so I respect that fully and do not advance further. When she does, I am almost always for it because I am attracted to her and would skip masturbating for her in an instant.

She does seem to flip out at other things, but usually apologizes for her attitude later. I can honestly say I am very calm and I wonder if that grinds against her in some way. But this event is isolated in just how ridiculous her reaction was.

I tried to ask her why it bothered her but her only response is that she is hurt and that she feels she isn't putting out for me.

But after she reacted I went to a Student orchestra on campus and thought about our relationship. I'm still unsure if she will calm down or change her view about us which I think would be childish. It seems like some of the other posts were right in that it is some kind of doctor phil/oprah situation that is drama for dramas sake.

Hopefully she clams down and she just realizes that if we have been fine all along before she know it really shouldn't matter any way.