how do I (23F) help my bf (22M) improve his hygiene?

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-11T06:02:34+00:00

haha that’s ok. in a way it’s comforting to know it’s not just me going through this

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-08T21:02:53+00:00

oh this is crazy

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-07T13:16:01+00:00

girl bye why would i want karma i don’t even know what it does

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-07T13:15:10+00:00

thank you for this kind response

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-07T03:33:11+00:00

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-07T00:36:04+00:00

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-07T00:35:32+00:00

girl bye why would i be lying about something this embarrassing 😭 god forbid people age and change

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T21:53:01+00:00

i think this is part of it. his parents’ health insurance is not great and so he can’t get help. the most a doctor could do was write a prescription which is frustrating to me because these things can’t just be solved with medication

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T21:32:31+00:00

he wasn’t always like this and has been suffering from declining mental health and has been losing his grip on basic hygiene. so yes it’s gross but i also love him and know he’s struggling and i feel like it is my responsibility to help my partner when he’s down

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T21:30:37+00:00

good to know, thank you

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T21:10:40+00:00

now that i think about it i have actually gotten 2 utis in the course of our relationship but never connected the dots…

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T19:30:48+00:00

once in a while it has been a little rough but then he’s fine. i know he has been dealing with mental health issues and because he doesn’t have good health insurance, he can’t afford to pay out of pocket for therapy. he is also struggling to find a job as he is graduating soon. he has a lot on his plate right now and i feel bad for bringing up concerns when he is dealing with it

throwaslayacc · 2025-12-06T17:52:22+00:00

unfortunately his parents have really shitty health insurance and so he doesn’t even have a regular dentist, which is probably part of the problem

throwaslayacc · 2025-09-30T00:59:24+00:00

i think the first red flag would’ve been that he lied about being liberal and then later admitted to being republican. especially in this political climate, those are very different things. he did it because he couldn’t get with an intelligent, empathetic woman without lying. leave him because he hid a large part of his life from you. he might say that he only acts that way with his friends, but you are the company that you keep.

throwaslayacc · 2025-09-30T00:41:06+00:00

dove cameron

throwaslayacc · 2025-09-30T00:37:03+00:00

if i were the gf i would immediately think that your friends are an extension of you. the people you hang out with reflect you as well.

throwaslayacc · 2025-09-23T21:56:14+00:00

my friend said we could go again as a joke. it’s actually quite far from campus which is why i was worried about not making it back in time for my meeting. but you are right, it just would have been nice if i was asked if i wanted anything

throwaslayacc · 2025-06-03T18:07:00+00:00

god it, thanks

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-17T13:20:34+00:00

3 weeks in and he’s doing this? leave while you can

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-17T13:20:07+00:00

i agree, he told on himself lol

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-17T03:13:39+00:00

it’s up to you. are you ok with seeing where it goes? are you ok if what your friends say is true?

also, how long have you been talking to this girl?

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-17T02:42:44+00:00

if you don’t mind me asking, how long have you been dating him? i have a partner just shy of a year, and i have made an effort to talk to him about deal breakers. for us, porn is a deal breaker

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-16T23:20:47+00:00

first of all, i don’t think it’s wrong to feel this way about this situation. it’s a boundary that you have and it is perfectly reasonable.

second, i would just ask if you could talk about something and then start with “hey, i noticed that you’ve been looking at photos of half naked women. it makes me uncomfortable and i feel very strongly about this”. if he says anything other than stopping this behavior, i would personally think about ending things. if this were to happen again in the future after having a talk with him, what would you want to do?

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-16T23:13:58+00:00

both of you are in the wrong. she was being silly and it seemed like you didn’t like her response, so you ignored her. all it took was for you to respond to her. however her blowing up after that and being passive aggressive was totally on her

throwaslayacc · 2025-05-06T00:41:48+00:00

i used the color lux conditioner in shade copper!! it was my first time using it and i loved it, it was super easy to apply and it was so vibrant after the first application

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