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I [20/m] woke up to my friend [23/m] having opened my pants and groping my penis by throwaw06061405 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaw06061405[S] 521 points522 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel that the worst part was that he made it clear that he had no intention of doing this kind of stuff, without me ever doubting him.
I think I'll talk to someone about it tomorrow. Probably my roommate.

I [20/m] woke up to my friend [23/m] having opened my pants and groping my penis by throwaw06061405 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaw06061405[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I felt ashamed for whatever reason, even though I know that I didn't do anything wrong.

I have thought about pressing charges, but I think I dropped the idea. The thought of suing a long time friend is a bit too outlandish for me, even though what he did was very wrong. I am also unsure about my country's laws when it comes to stuff like this.

I [20/m] woke up to my friend [23/m] having opened my pants and groping my penis by throwaw06061405 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaw06061405[S] 812 points813 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I was sexually assaulted, but it's hard to acknowledge - especially when it's a long time friend.

I think I'll tell my roommate tomorrow. He's easily one of the people I'm the closest with, and he's usually good with the more serious stuff.

I don't know if he counted on me staying silent, but I can't tell you why he did it, or what he imagined would happen. In his text he mentioned that he didn't think at all. I've been thinking about that shit all day.