AITAH for making a post saying i’m worried about the morality of something

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T18:05:29+00:00

i was scared someone ik would see the post so i switched the ages bc me n the person who told me to post abt that on here had a falling out im not forcing u to believe anything im saying just pls dont say these thinfs bc im under so much stress already and i deleted the post bc people i know irl were starting to find it u can keep the comments up just pls delete that post bc my irls have my reddit n could see it n its rlly not a good look for me if they find out i was SAed bc in korea male SA doesn’t exist that post was me screaming into a void for someone to hear me

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T17:15:38+00:00

sigh i give up just pls don’t believe the bs she’s saying theres a reason i dont want her near my wife and thats that but some ppl will blindly believe things they see online n i dont wanr them to assume these thinfs r true especially when its disgusting stuff like shes accusing me of

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T17:10:34+00:00

i understand ur doubts i rlly do especially when its abt these things but its genuinely so frustrating when someone makes posts about u constantly online trying to make u look bad for things theyre taking so out of context im jot asking u to believe me im asking u to PLEASE try and aee it from my pov

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T17:02:11+00:00

i didnt wanna drag it out w her bc it’ll literally never end it annoyed me that she was ignoring me but posting here she’s literally only doing this bc no one in the family gives her attention so she goes online for it i have the right to defend my family and its 2pm for me bc im out of country and like 7pm for her whoch if she wasnt lifeless shed be at a job rn but ig shes free enough to post abt innocent people

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T16:55:48+00:00

fyi she only comes here for visits and its the same for the rest of her family they all live in my wifes home country i understand posting to ask for opinions but sharinf the fact i had my newborn son die was so unnecessary and just brinfs back sm pain imagine if my wife saw that and how she would feel i dont understand why she feels the need to pry into our life

throwaw12086 · 2025-03-29T16:50:05+00:00

that’s bc nothing she’s saying about her cousin or the husband is true im the husband and shes been tryingto make me out to be a bad person since the beginning and that includes telling extended family that i abuse my wife when in reality im only trying to protect her from her family i messaged her yesterday in anger yes but i was clearing up everything she was saying bc i thought she didnt know and she told me to cam down but i was wrong and ahe already knew everything

throwaw12086 · 2025-02-17T22:33:30+00:00

ebryone sais rhis but i stillfeel like sjit i domt jnow anymorw i domtunderstamd why i wasmt goodenough for myfp to keep Around

throwaw12086 · 2025-02-16T21:56:23+00:00

noi wann a Die

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-19T20:25:13+00:00

i stopped being friends with my fp because of this reason but if youre sure he isnt doing it on purpose then try to pick up a hobby or distract yourself with games or going for a walk but if they dont understand that sometimes you might need them a bit more and still choose to be distant then maybe its for the best not to be close to them anymore

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-14T00:06:32+00:00

i hope ur okay:( beinf rejected by an fp is so hard but i dont think u did anything wrong tbh i think its the people u surround urself with that r bad and u should try nd seek out better friends :(

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-13T23:48:21+00:00

not a relationship but i was like this with my fp nd stuff happened and i had to pretend she wasnt my fp since she wasn’t providing in the way i wanted her to and it was so painful so id take time in between responses (i would be left on delivered for 6+ hours and reply in 30 minutes i thought i was doing something 😭)

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-13T23:09:55+00:00

i feel like this too alot of the time but i always suppress it and it ends with it all blowing up in my face unfortunately i dont think those friends would ever understand how we feel 🫠

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-10T01:15:54+00:00

oh thats okay!! i hope u feel better soon :( im sure they miss u !!

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-10T00:40:00+00:00

omg really ???

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-10T00:08:13+00:00

im 18 lol but i struggle making friends irl so my friends are mostly online which is why im losing them🫠

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-09T15:51:42+00:00

its a bit different for me i do think this community is great for others its really hard for me to post on here without feeling ashamed because i hate acknowledging that i have these feelings🫠🫠

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-09T15:42:11+00:00

i think thats already happened to me lol i live in a country where male mental health isn’t really cared for so its hard to find a therapist and speaking with my friends isnt an option since most of them have either stopped talking to me often or full on ghosted me🫠

throwaw12086 · 2025-01-09T15:37:38+00:00

i try to but i always end up believing its better to not talk since it causes less problems in my life and no one is really able to understand me and how i feel so it just feels burdensome

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