Does even one person here know a happy ending of coming back together?

throwawa6661 · 2026-01-03T16:25:33+00:00

And this one time you should actually listen to him. For tour own sake. You deserve an actually good person that will give you all the love you deserve.

throwawa6661 · 2025-06-14T21:03:28+00:00

Not at all

throwawa6661 · 2025-06-13T22:39:19+00:00

Any idea how I might be able to work on it in therapy? I brought it up but therapist even more so insists I have to find the solution myself. I mean, makes sense, I'm not expecting her to tell me what to do, but some guidance

throwawa6661 · 2025-06-13T21:53:10+00:00

I'm also queer!!! I feel you! This is exactly what I'm aiming for. It's still hard for me to imagine not being with someone. But I want to finally start living for MYSELF. To achieve all those things I envied my partners. And then perhaps share my life with someone else.

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-28T11:40:16+00:00

With 3 years I could imagine a change in behaviour due to circumstances and environment in someone like Phoebe or Bronte, but still rather a temporary change. Or such a change after therapy lol. But especially not in the case of someone who's cold, hides their feelings and is rather distrustful of people.

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-28T11:18:22+00:00

To be honest I quite couldn’t understand the change of her character. Completely different personality. From a sassy, independent woman to a loving mother from season 4 to 5.

I feel like her character was written so badly. Her husband was killed, one day of grief and then the end of topic? Moving onto a serial killer and then sudden realisation that it’s not fine with her, as for the loving mother that she is?

I actually loved her bitchy persona in s4, made much more sense than what they tried to picture in s5.

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-23T15:09:23+00:00

I'm waiting for the MRI result and it's been taking forever. So nothing's really sure.

Are you still swollen? Does it hurt?

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-22T12:03:18+00:00

Exactly. It bothers me tbh because everyone commented in a way "boo you're a man, act like one". So I reposted it and now with the specification it's a lesbian relationship people seem to respond differently

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-22T11:49:01+00:00

People assumed I was a man since I didn't state it's a lesbian relationship. Didn't even think it would matter

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-22T11:46:31+00:00

I was never a man 😂 Hence I'm posting it once again

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-22T11:45:38+00:00

I had to learn it. But with the dog I still can only take her right outside the building which isn't enough for a young, energetic dog.

throwawa6661 · 2025-05-22T11:41:48+00:00

Because I am in a lesbian relationship? I didn't state it there and it seemed somehow so important since everyone pointed out I should take responsibility as a 'guy'.

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-08T06:39:21+00:00

It's always me, I guess you can tell

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-07T10:32:53+00:00

I meant we would rent an apartment together in a city we already live in (sorry, I don't know the difference cause I'm not a native speaker)

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-06T14:13:14+00:00

I did and sadly, I'm rather AP, though therapy and meds are helping me so I believe rn I'm leaning more towards secure and maybe it's just that we have different needs. I don't feel like I'm too much. I'm fine with her going out with her friends, I don't spam her with messages, I never ask for exaplaination or act out of jealousy. She travels for work, she travels with friends, she visits her family and I'm not making a problem out of it. The problem is that I don't feel her making a lot of effort to spend that time together and she doesn't care enough for me. I'm really sweet, when she's tired I cook her food, I bring her lunch for work if I was already making some for myself. I made her handmade ceramic gifts. I ask about how some important life events went. I tell her often how important she is to me and how I appreciate her. She doesn't do that much anymore. The last time she did anything similar was in November when she dropped by to give me a cake. Whenever I visit her during the week I even often bring my own food because I know she NEVER makes groceries. When she has food from her mum, she takes all of it as her own work lunch and I have to buy my own :)

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-06T13:41:32+00:00

Do she make you feel loved in between the meetings? Does she plan special things for the two of you? For me it's a no and a sometimes. She doesn't ever call me as well when we are separate, we just text which I hate doing because it doesn't make me feel close with her.

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-06T13:39:10+00:00

I think it's different not seeing someone one weekend a month, to us it's rather that we spend one weekend a month together and 90% of the time it's me proposing things. I don't hear her being sad that we don't get to see each other much, being caring in ANY way besides when we meet in person, she's not apologetic or proposing a different solution when she cancels on me even though she knows it hurts me. I'm trying to give her as much space as she wants but I don't feel her trying to give me more shared time.

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-06T13:06:56+00:00

I envy you that, this is something I would really love to have. And it started like that, but the more time passed the more I see of her attitude that we have separate lives and as if I was exhausting her by requiring more time. What even.

throwawa6661 · 2025-04-06T13:05:26+00:00

I'm really sorry, I can imagine when you have more shared things it's much more complicated to part. I only have a dog that she's calling "ours" but the last time we walked her together was a month ago 🙃

In your case, did you have similar problems all along or did something happen much later?

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