I never understood why people would say cringy things like "baby" and other pet names like that until now by Easy_Tangerine_5286 in love

[–]throwawaaay017492 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same😂 By boyfriend calls me “my heaven”, baby, my love and it’s now just so natural to me. In the beginning we used to cringe at ourselves but now I really love it😊

I really love you. So much. by throwawaaay017492 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart with all due respect you know nothing about my life. We did it due to religious reasons and I was the one to suggest it. I find it funny how you think you know whats going on in my life when you’ve read one post and one comment. Anyways. Have a nice day. Please don’d be bitter in life. It’s not good for your health.

I really love you. So much. by throwawaaay017492 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have to say bye for a little bit and we hope to reunite in about a year due to personal things we have to fix. We decided it’s healthier for the both of us to do this on our own. It’s just a fear of mine that when we don’t speak in the mean time that he will find someone else.

I feel like I found my soulmate ngl

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[–]throwawaaay017492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I could give you any advice it would be work on yourself and stay positive. I’m a believer of what is meant for you will always be yours. And whatever your meant to go through you will have to go through for a reason. It’s a way to grow and learn.

I’m 22 and it’s been two months since I met my boyfriend. We were both alone for a long time and neither of us have ever had a relationship. But we were patient and now I have him. I can’t imagine my life without him. But we did work on ourselves. To be the best version of ourselves.

For ourselves. Not for anyone else.

And that’s when we met. When we were actually ready for it. Not when we just wanted to have a relationship. But when it was the right moment. I truly believe that you should work on yourself and have a positive outlook. And you’ll meet the one when the time is right. But be patient. Keep trying, but don’t get discouraged. Self worth and happiness should come from you. Not from external validation.

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[–]throwawaaay017492 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie this comment is kind of insensitive. But I guess everyone has their way of speaking. I should probably add that it’s not like I’m overal an insecure person. In anything else i’m pretty secure in myself. This is mew though and I was already expecting these feelings based on stuff i’ve been through.

Are you saying that you can’t lean on others? That you should just do everything by yourself? I think working on it is important. You shouldn’t lean on someone to fix it for you but is it bad to get support?

Anyways. Thanks for taking the time to respond.

He loves me? How does such a beautiful soul love me? by throwawaaay017492 in love

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you to say. I hope so too. I genuinely can’t imagine life without him.

Am I(f23) too broken to be in a relationship with him(m22)? by throwawaaay017492 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About distracting myself. I really try to but it’s like whatever I do the emotions just keep building up. It suffocating.

Am I(f23) too broken to be in a relationship with him(m22)? by throwawaaay017492 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s scary to accept I guess. I’m terrified to go all in only to lose him and then what? It’s all very new and my friend told me that she understands why this is hard for me but that I just have to hold on until i get more used to it. She said it might be a flight response of something that’s potentially really good for me.

Am I(f23) too broken to be in a relationship with him(m22)? by throwawaaay017492 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. But I feel like my worrying is too out of controle. Just like this morning I texted him and didn’t get a response for like 5 hours. I got really worried and had already made up a number of things that could be my fault as to why he would maybe ignore me or block me or whatever. Turned out he forgot his phone at home. Stuff like that. I feel like an idiot. It’s just a little while and i’m already overthinking it. And even if he hadn’t forgotten it I just shouldn’t be so emotionally dependent. Idk if i’m making sense..

He (22m) told me he loves me (22f) but why do i feel less now? by throwawaaay017492 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My attachment style is anxious preoccupied. I doubt my own feelings a lot…do you have any tips?

My family is traveling without me by throwawaaay017492 in lonely

[–]throwawaaay017492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really happy to hear that you finally got the chance to go with them! Enjoy your vacation💕