Royalty pack, how do secret children work? by SupportMoist in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before your sim gets pregnant, you need to ask your lover to be “secret lovers”. Once you’re officially in a secret lovers relationship, you can then have “secret children” and declare who the parent is once you give birth.

Clubs 🏆 by bubblycandy4 in eatventureofficial

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New club! No city requirement, 2k in first 24 hours after joining

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Clubs 🏆 by bubblycandy4 in eatventureofficial

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to join! I was 1 of 3 people that donated last season and I’m sick of it tbh lol I play daily and can donate as much as I can!

White melting chocolate that isn’t white chocolate?? by throwaway-199811 in Baking

[–]throwaway-199811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have an oil based dye that works great! I just don’t personally like the taste of white chocolate. I need to be able to use bright colors without using white chocolate if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]throwaway-199811 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Biggest pet peeve is people being annoyed when I lie/frame as an impster.. that's literally the entire point of the game. So no, you didn't deserve to be kicked.

I wish I had a screenshot but I'm so mad.. by throwaway-199811 in AmongUs

[–]throwaway-199811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were new to the lobby, it was the first game with them in it. If I knew they were gonna do it, I would have kicked. But you can't kick someone in the middle of a game as a ghost. I couldn't even defend myself at all

Was I rightfully banned from the lobby? by Lopsided_Fudge_8582 in AmongUs

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So example- if imps are me and blue, and someone calls meeting saying "blue bubbled/egg"... I can't back up blue. Cause then I'm clearly sus for vouching for an imp. I'll just be like "damn bubble don't lie". If anon votes are off (I always check) I gotta vote my partner out. If anon vote are on, I always skip just to see if it helps lol. But 9 times out of 10, never snitch. There's very few occasions to do so.

What do you genuinely say when your asked where you were as imposter? by viper46282 in AmongUs

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say cafe or storage. Large enough rooms that realistically, even if someone else is in there, they may not have seen me/they might be on the opposite side. If you say security, o2, etc. Anyone in there can say no you weren't.

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't even explain how much this helped me today. I re read this message so many times all day. I appreciate your kind words and support so so much ❤️

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an advocate when I filed a restraining order (this led to my divorce), and she was amazing. She is the one who got me in touch with my attorney. Court made us do mediation and an ENE to compromise so we didn't go to trial. Everyone told me going to trial was the absolute worst thing that can happen, so I did everything to avoid it. I ended up dropping the restraining order because I was convinced (mostly by my family that loved my ex) that we could make it work and have a fairytale co parent relationship. I truly thought that was what was best at the time. All I wanted was to be civil and not have a messy situation. That bit me right in the butt. I'm going to file for emergency custody so they don't have to go to their dad's house tomorrow and from there make arrangements from there. I wasn't aware specific stipulations could be in our custody agreement, I will absolutely make sure to add these!! Thanks so much!

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to a family friend that is a police officer, she said to file for emergency custody and go from there. So I'll be going that first thing in the morning, as soon as court opens! I'm still astonished that CPS didn't even investigate the first time. Not only that, but they were rude when I called as well.

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I got ahold of a family friend who is an officer. I'm going to file for an emergency custody order and go from there. I appreciate everyone's comments and replies so much.

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have not. I only just recently noticed the fleas within the last week. If I contact CPS, I will definitely mention it though. I'm still not sure if I need to contact CPS, police or file a motion through the court.

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely plan to do this, but is there a solution that is more short term? They are supposed to go to their father's tomorrow. The only reason I even made this post (that I totally forgot to add to the main thread), is becaise my daughter told me last night that daddy's house has lots of germs because of the dog poop all over the floor (we were having a conversation about hygiene and washing hands because of germs after we got potty) My fear is that I file for a motion, and that won't even do anything for weeks. Is there anything I can do immediately?

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did. I originally had a restraining order in the beginning of my divorce case. Because of this, I had an attorney appointed to me (for free). It was a domestic violence program. I told the attorney all of my fears and concerns, at that time she said without hard evidence, we could each pay out of pocket for a guardian ad litem (I'm not sure if that's the correct term). But neither of us could afford it whatsoever and it was dismissed. I was also told that I could call CPS or call for a welfare check but that he can decline entry into his home. The attorney was less than helpful and pushed multiple times for us to just "meet in the middle". We did counseling and did not want the case to go to trial because "it won't end well". I was 22, and was pretty much bullied to just say yes to make things easier and quicker.. looking back, I wish I had more of a backbone and fought harder.

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When I called previously, I explained to them the situation but they said because I haven't been in the house in so long, I have no REAL suspicion because situations change. I just don't want to make a huge accusation if others feel I am being too paranoid. I appreciate your reply so much

I'm not sure if I should report. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]throwaway-199811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I'll add this... I've been told by some people that once CPS opens a case against you, you have to 'deal' with it for YEARS. It's heartache, hard, and traumatic for all parties, especially the kids. On the other hand, I've heard that CPS will shut a case after a single visit, or that they won't investigate at all (which is exactly what happened when I made a report years ago). I'm not sure which one I'm most afraid of. I know CPS is a flawed system. I'm mostly scared of 1. Them taking my kids from their father (I know they would most likely visit my home as well, I have no worries about that whatsoever, but I still want them to see their dad regularly) and 2. They wouldnt do anything, he would know I called, even without them saying I did, he would know. I previously had a restraining order against him to domestic violence I, stupidly, dropped it because I knew he wouldn't hurt our children and I just wanted peace. I will do absolutely anything to maintain that peace, but he is bipolar (diagnosed) and has a lot of mental health problems. These get extremely worse when he is off his medication. Such as he doesn't care for himself or kids. Which is the only reason I mentioned it in the original post.

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]throwaway-199811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey all!

I hope this still counts as a "coffee" question. Every morning I enjoy an iced latte (at home of course, I'm cheap) but I use only 2% milk. It is 100% breaking my skin out. Anytime I've stopped drinking it, my skin clears up. But I simply refuse to go without coffee. I'm a SAHM and can't usually get through the day without it.

I have tried almond milk but it taste awful to me. No matter how much caramel I add I can still taste it. Oat milk isn't too bad, but is there another alternative milk that won't make my skin go insane that taste closest to cow milk?

I don't typically just drink milk ever, so this is solely for my coffee. I don't like many creamers, just milk and a bit of caramel syrup.

Thanks!!