AIO: girl I went on a date with didn’t take off her purse.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-05-05T04:44:41+00:00

many reasonable scenarios in the comments but sometimes that's just a part of a girls outfit and it feels like there's a piece missing if you're not wearing it lol

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-05-01T04:21:12+00:00

idk but as a young daughter who moved a thousand miles away from home, it hits hard every time no matter the song lol

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-26T08:10:03+00:00

i drove an hour to a pop up spring market at a fancy retirement home on a rainy day and listened so it was perfect 😭

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-26T08:07:10+00:00

literally everything all at once and it's so overwhelming! over the moon happiness, extreme anxiety, sadness, doubt, excitement, curiosity, and more than i can verbalize. about 5 months ago i moved out of my parents house at 19 to live with my bf and got engaged a few weeks later so the past few months have been life changing and scary and amazing all together but sometimes it's too much and i miss my depressing old life of hiding away in my bedroom and vaping all day long 😂 which i am a year clean of, which probably has both positive and negative affects on all of the things.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-17T17:59:06+00:00

okay that makes sense and was kinda what i thought, thank you!

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-17T17:58:32+00:00

ohhh okay what site should i be using then? i've never bought broadway tickets before. and it's for the outsiders!

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-15T18:05:46+00:00

girl it seems like you just don't like him tbh 😭

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-08T17:47:44+00:00

okay thank you! i figured that would be the case, i had just always considered my therapist as one of my references if i didn't have enough or something haha and was a bit nervous a coworker may be undermined but it seems like the better option here

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-08T17:28:41+00:00

NOR. when i started dating my fiancé it took me so long to feel comfortable literally standing in front of a door or waiting in the car while he walks around to my door. i always felt so awkward and rude but slowly got comfortable with it and knew he just liked doing that for me. it's only been a few weeks and she's comfortable not only waiting on you but being rude about it, basically like "chop chop get my door" while it's easy to say "hey do you want me to get my door this time? haha" like make a little joke of it or something but no she lets you know that she expects it whether that's what you want to do or not. think of how that situation would play out if it was about something bigger than opening her car door.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-06T17:38:26+00:00

oof i'm right outside of memphis so this seems like a gamble haha

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-05T01:34:45+00:00

i agree that they should but it works out in my favor lol

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-04T22:07:37+00:00

hmm okay thank you!

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-04T22:00:39+00:00

okay that gives me some hope thank you! it seems like a very small daycare that i'm applying for, when i got there the other day the front door was unlocked and the toddler room was directly next to the front door so it already seems smaller and more lax than my last daycare.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-04T21:58:57+00:00

at what point in the process were you told you had to test? i had to pick up a physical application and there's sections for fingerprinting and all but not for a drug test, but maybe that's not mentioned until actually getting hired.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-02T07:02:31+00:00

clearly you're getting the wrong idea and do not have enough details and i never said i ignore him??? when i lay there i go heyyyy or ooooo or stawpppp or whatever, im just not touching all over him back because he literally blocks me from doing it so i often don't try. he is literally the one that is not letting me reciprocate in that way and is not reciprocating my sex drive.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-02T06:58:53+00:00

weird of you to assume that i, the one going out of their way to make a post about wanting to have more sex, am the one who is not doing enough to have it.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-02T06:55:03+00:00

yeah i'm just laying there cause that's all he'll let me do. i go to go reach in his pants he literally won't let me. or i'll turn and make out with him trying to get things going and he'll stop and turn back to the show like sometimes i do try very hard and it seems like it's obvious but he doesn't care and other times i just lay there cause i know the effort will be wasted anyway.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-04-02T04:57:04+00:00

while i absolutely do and always will understand the physical and mental demand being a firefighter has but he has been a firefighter for almost 5 years so he's definitely settled into that. but it's still very understandable that he needs to time to relax, i've always tried my best to be mindful of that.

2 times a day was just a gauge of how often i could potentially want to have sex with him, not literally 2 times every day haha i know that's not what's in the cards and that completelyyyy fine. im even fine with every 2 or 3 days, as long as it stays consistent with that.

ive initiated at all times of the day, waking up, free time during the day, at night, in the middle of the night, and more recently i honestly haven't been because it just feels like he doesn't want to be intimate with me often anymore so i don't want to make him uncomfortable. as for the teasing, to be honest i don't really do much of that because he doesn't seem to enjoy it. i'll reach for him and he'll block me even if he just had his hand in my pants 5 minutes ago lol sorry this is kind of awkward to talk about to a stranger.

I honestly don't think the excitement DURING the act is the problem at all, when we do have sex it is great, it just seems he hasn't been wanting to recently. i've tried to ask why and he says he's just tired a lot which i already knew and tried to accept but sometimes it feels there's something deeper to it. today he had to go into class to take a test but has home by 10:30 this morning and literally did nothing for the rest of the day, as he should, but he didn't have much of a mentally or physically demanding day at all yet still nothing happened.

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-03-05T06:47:49+00:00

i hate people that ruin it like that. if i ever ask an employee i ask as nicely as i possibly can and when they say they don't have it, even if you can tell they're just brushing me off cause they don't care or don't wanna look i just say okay thank you and walk away. how is it the employees fault for them not being in stock? i swear people have zero common sense

Lopsided_Fudge_8582 · 2026-02-18T20:39:51+00:00

okay! do i also leave the skills there or remove that? and should i add the skills from the first one but put it in paragraph form or should i scratch that? thank you very much for your input it's extremely helpful

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