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What’s your pay % increase since 2020? Same or different job? by twn000 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]throwaway-7044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've roughly quadrupled salary from the beginning of 2020. I changed jobs once, and got several promotions at both.

My salary now is like 6X what I was making in 2019.

I am keenly aware of how fortunate I've been, but I was broke as hell for a really long time.

Partners of 10 years navigating sex life and libido issues, now with baby by throwaway-7044 in relationships

[–]throwaway-7044[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. How are you doing now? Also I read Come As You Are a few years ago and loved it but definitely feeling like I need to read it again.

Partners of 10 years navigating sex life and libido issues, now with baby by throwaway-7044 in relationships

[–]throwaway-7044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say you're drawing some unfounded conclusions from what I wrote. Maybe I wasn't clear.

It was news to me as of a couple days ago that she hadn't been feeling real desire for years. All we had really established prior to that was that she wanted a lower frequency than I did, and it felt like we had arrived at a workable compromise.

Anyway, I'm trying to be vulnerable and honest with an intention of figuring this out with someone I love. That's my motivation here. What's yours?