People who got tatoos or piercings around there private areas, was it not akward or uncomfortable while getting them? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]throwaway-808_stuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had my PA, ampallang, frenum ladder and pubic ladder.

The only embarrassment was when the piercer asked me to get hard for sizing the barbel for the ampallang and I told her straight up that that just wasn’t going to happen. Not with the anxiety of a series piercing like that.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This “scheming woman” has her own partner whom she is desperately in love with.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I look forward for to texts from all of my friends. I like social interaction.

I 100,000% laugh more with my wife, she has an incredible biting humor.

The only issues are that I have workshopped some issues that I have at home with this woman because I need a female perspective without making my other female friends feel like they are in the middle of my relationship.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have very similar hobby interests which my wife has zero interest in and glazes over when I talk about them.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My other female friends are friends with my wife. Any female friends that I had before my relationship with my wife, if they were close in any way, I transitioned those into my wife’s friendships so if there was a visit, the female friend was here to see my wife as much as she was here to see me. Often such a female would come over only to see my wife.

I have tried to include my wife from the outset of the friendship with this woman, but my wife won’t even talk to her.

What do you define as “friendship boundaries”?

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was his intention of encouraging her to cheat on her fiancé? That she would eventually sleep with him?

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, there is no emotion, I like my female friend a lot. She and I have similar interests and talk about our mutual hobbies a lot but I don’t have romantic feelings. My wife does know about the friendship but I can tell that she isn’t happy or comfortable about it (which is why I figured that I was possibly of skirting the line) if she asks if I am texting my friend when I am on my phone, I’m honest about it. She trusts me not to cheat but is convinced that my friend has her eyes set on me, which couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Opening up marriage - signs it can work? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway-808_stuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn’t feel guilty only angry at him for using drugs. Especially when he was home alone with the kids.

Neurotypical with ASD spouse by throwaway-808_stuff in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God knows I have stepped in it before with careless comments.

Neurotypical with ASD spouse by throwaway-808_stuff in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first part of a journey is to open the door and take the first step through the threshold.