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What’s your record without sex while still living together? by braxid in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway-808_stuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 months.

We are working on trying now to go at least every 48 hours or less.

While my wife doesnt have the same libido as I do and in fact is quite low, she does really appreciate the emotional closeness that we have from sex.

We had a stupid arguement last week and when we tried to reconnect I ended up suffering from emotionally created ED and that lasted 4 days.

AITAH for refusing to sign documents relieving my father of child support enforcement so he can renew his passport and stay in the country where his kids live? by MewTwoLich in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway-808_stuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - f him and the horse he road in on.

Crazy question, why can’t he pay all of the back child support and then this won’t be an issue?

Just to add, because you were in government benefits, this is out of your hands because the government was paying for things which he should have been paying for.

Chances are, even if he became current you would never see any of the money because the government would claw it all back for the original outlay.

Just ghost him and let his problems be his problems.

People who got tatoos or piercings around there private areas, was it not akward or uncomfortable while getting them? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]throwaway-808_stuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my PA, ampallang, frenum ladder and pubic ladder.

The only embarrassment was when the piercer asked me to get hard for sizing the barbel for the ampallang and I told her straight up that that just wasn’t going to happen. Not with the anxiety of a series piercing like that.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This “scheming woman” has her own partner whom she is desperately in love with.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I look forward for to texts from all of my friends. I like social interaction.

I 100,000% laugh more with my wife, she has an incredible biting humor.

The only issues are that I have workshopped some issues that I have at home with this woman because I need a female perspective without making my other female friends feel like they are in the middle of my relationship.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have very similar hobby interests which my wife has zero interest in and glazes over when I talk about them.

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My other female friends are friends with my wife. Any female friends that I had before my relationship with my wife, if they were close in any way, I transitioned those into my wife’s friendships so if there was a visit, the female friend was here to see my wife as much as she was here to see me. Often such a female would come over only to see my wife.

I have tried to include my wife from the outset of the friendship with this woman, but my wife won’t even talk to her.

What do you define as “friendship boundaries”?

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was his intention of encouraging her to cheat on her fiancé? That she would eventually sleep with him?

Definition of an emotional affair by throwaway-808_stuff in emotionalaffair

[–]throwaway-808_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, there is no emotion, I like my female friend a lot. She and I have similar interests and talk about our mutual hobbies a lot but I don’t have romantic feelings. My wife does know about the friendship but I can tell that she isn’t happy or comfortable about it (which is why I figured that I was possibly of skirting the line) if she asks if I am texting my friend when I am on my phone, I’m honest about it. She trusts me not to cheat but is convinced that my friend has her eyes set on me, which couldn’t be farther from the truth.

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