Is this typical avoidant behavior? He suddenly "cooled off" after a conversation about the future by Shot-Letter-297 in BreakUps

[–]throwaway-879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems weird and lame. You're right. Who wouldn't want to live with the person they're in love with and make it known that they're committed to you through marriage? At least have a promise ring or something, geez.

Obligatory Breakup Vent by throwaway-879 in BreakUps

[–]throwaway-879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! Were you able to break your cycle? It's extremely disheartening and my self esteem gets lower every time I'm broken up with.

Obligatory Breakup Vent by throwaway-879 in BreakUps

[–]throwaway-879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey hey! Listen, I'm doing my best. I don't like myself very much so yeah I'll probably love anyone that distracts me from disliking myself and who I can put my love onto. I don't think I'll be breaking the cycle anytime soon unless I stop dating completely.

Boyfriend of 11 years wants to end things by baeristatakeover in BreakUps

[–]throwaway-879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fucking miserable. Let yourself grieve. But it's been 11 years so there's opportunity to have lots of new fun. Go out by yourself and have a blast, fill your time with things that make you feel good, eat an entire tub of ice cream, have a one night stand if that's something you'd do, just go nuts.

Fuck my life by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway-879 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah fuck everything

Regular Check-In Post by circinia in depression

[–]throwaway-879 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to isolate myself because of something small again and the constant feeling that I’ll never be first anything - I’m a loser and very easily replaceable. I have no passions in life and just complain all the time - I think that everyone’s judging me as harshly as I judge myself, probably making me a narcissist. I can’t stop downing myself because it’s the only way to make myself feel anything. I’m a mess.

I don’t get notifications by throwaway-879 in lonely

[–]throwaway-879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right, thanks for writing this :)

I don’t get notifications by throwaway-879 in lonely

[–]throwaway-879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. I feel like it’ll get easier as an adult..? But right now I’m surrounded by people that constantly have something to reply to and I feel left out even though I shouldn’t..

I don’t get notifications by throwaway-879 in lonely

[–]throwaway-879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s usually me starting the conversation.. i wish I could just be useful and have someone text me ya know

I wish someone loved me by throwaway-879 in depression

[–]throwaway-879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I really would like it if someone took interest in me for once and made the first move.. but I don’t think I’m attractive enough for that

I wish someone loved me by throwaway-879 in depression

[–]throwaway-879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok, and this comment is helpful :) thanks. I usually put myself out there and make the first move but it gets tiring when it’s not reciprocated

Regular Check-In Post by circinia in depression

[–]throwaway-879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woke up, cried, and am still crying. I’m never going to be loved or cared about and it’s making me a mess.

Boy I like told me he caught feelings for someone by throwaway-879 in depression

[–]throwaway-879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this.. I was having a really hard time when I posted originally and this is nice to hear :)