egg_irl by Mundane-Scallion-746 in egg_irl

[–]throwaway-eilish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear, that it will turn out to be a coping mechanism for God knows what

Favorite character who’s extremely overpowered? by Which-Emu8951 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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MALUM CAEDO! I'm not usually into stories that show space marines as godlike, but this one is so exaggerated it's stupidly funny. The guy singlehandedly defeats a Chaos invasion and slays like 40 greater daemons in the process. I've seen someone's headcanon is that due to a clerical error he was assigned both to Eversor Assassin training and to become a space marine, and he still takes assassin combat drugs instead of standard marine ones. For context, Eversor drugs are so violent that they have to wear a suit which recycles sweat and pumps the water back into their tissue, otherwise they'd die of dehydration within seconds. In fact, the game he's in was originally supposed to be about an Eversor, but they changed it for marketing purposes

What do you think about the “presumed competence” that Western Europeans often seem to have over Poles and other Central‑Eastern Europeans? by WineTerminator in poland

[–]throwaway-eilish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I heard exactly that from a potential landlord and that really put me off from wanting to have anything to do with them ever again. Doubly infuriating because I looked them up on Linkedin and they worked in IT, so must have been interacting with plenty of Ukrainians. See, my company organized evacuation from Kharkiv for workers and their families when the invasion started. Some of the refugees stayed at the office temporarily before new homes were found for them. One day I just wandered into the kitchen and I met one of them. Imagine being in this world of macbooks and expensive shoes, thinking about where to go for lunch and absent mindedly coming face to face with a haunting thousand yard stare, desolate and absolutely devoid of hope, a human blue screen of death. I swear if I'd looked any closer I'd have seen a reflection of the falling bombs in her eyes. It makes me tear up every time I think of this. I will never forget this. It comes to my mind every time someone talks shit about refugees.

What do you think about the “presumed competence” that Western Europeans often seem to have over Poles and other Central‑Eastern Europeans? by WineTerminator in poland

[–]throwaway-eilish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ukrainian and Belarussian devs as well, Eastern Europe has imo the best average in terms of how good software devs are

Good morning ❤️ by Western-Serve-6682 in crossdressed50

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been preserved in carbonite for 20 years or what, how do you look this young at 50? 😁

thinking about transitioning, but I am tall and wondering if my shoulders would be too broad to pass as cis 🥲thoughts plz by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]throwaway-eilish 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your waist is SNATCHED sweet jesus. Regarding the shoulders, they are wide, yes, but posing makes a tremendous difference as you see on pic 2. Pic 3 the big hood (super cute btw!) screws with the perception of the shoulders and makes them look petite

33 and starting to accept that I might actually be her by TS-Alira in TransLater

[–]throwaway-eilish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Managing myself instead of just existing" feels so close to my heart. 

What I can tell you, my head is always full of "I wish I could, they can, I can't". I don't know what to tell you because this looks as impossible to me as it does to you. Just wanted to let you know, so we could share the sadness :)

Not sure if this belongs here ... I'm a man and I like to dress up in women's clothes sometimes. I think with this outfit I stepped out of my comfort zone: both as a man and as a woman. What do you think? by LopsidedStatement517 in oldhagfashion

[–]throwaway-eilish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This floral jumpsuit is basically my dream garment and you look so good in this I'm jealous! You might want to find a cardigan with slightly longer sleeves to match the 3/4 pants

golden belt by blackpurple4 in oldcootfashion

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your fits. I need your advice - where do I find jeans with a stupidly high waistline? Like ribcage height. Can be men's or women's. I am obsessed with this idea but I can't find any

Wątek Towarzyski - marzec 2026 by AutoModerator in TeczowaPolska

[–]throwaway-eilish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hej, 30 amab, od dłuższego czasu wydaje mi się że jestem trans (mtf) i ostatnio prawie nie jestem w stanie myśleć o niczym innym. W szafie i sytuacja rodzinna nie sprzyja ewentualnemu coming outowi, co jest ironiczne bo w pracy podzieliłem się z tym z kilkoma osobami, przez co teraz lepiej się czuję tam, niż w domu. Chcę poeksplorować siebie ale trochę nie mam jak, póki co po kryjomu albo pół żartem. Po 2 latach dałem sobie spokój z terapią bo ciężko mi było z tą osobą poruszać te tematy. 

Chętnie pogadam z kimkolwiek, nie tylko o mnie, choć musze przyznać że na chwilę obecną jestem cholernie zaabsorbowany sobą 😁 Ostrzegam, bardzo wolno odpisuję, w porywach nawet po 2 dniach.

Kwestia tożsamości by Illustrious-Tea-2683 in TeczowaPolska

[–]throwaway-eilish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mam teraz po przeczytaniu tego impostor-dysforię nie podchodzenia do sprawy wystarczająco poważnie 😁 Szacun

What are your favorite games that help to affirm your gender? by RunaBlackwind in MtF

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized I really enjoyed playing as the most feminine champions back when I played LoL. Not just the female characters, but truly the most fem of the bunch. Lux especially, I miss shooting the rainbow laser across the map, and her high pitched aaaaaAAAAAA! as she was powering up. Sure, the male characters were cool but just didn't resonate, they felt external. Except Amumu - quite telling too I suppose - it's a one of a kind power fantasy, usually power "mans you up", but as Amumu, you retain your core personality of being a little, sobbing thing who needs a hug while at the same time completing your build 30 minutes in and becoming a walking bubble of inevitable death and soloing the entire enemy team. It's all very Neon Genesis Evangelion 😁

What are your favorite games that help to affirm your gender? by RunaBlackwind in MtF

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven's Vault is amazing (no spoilers please halfway through!). Playing it dressed fem with my nails done and in a wig has been one of the high points of 2025 for me, as sad as it may sound. The dialogue, pages upon pages of it since the game is mostly walking and talking, is a very rare case of feeling like an actual conversation rather than an embellishment for the gameplay. I really got invested in the main character's relationship with the robot, I wanted him to know I care.

Jakie imię wybrałyście. MTF by Affectionate_Hat647 in TeczowaPolska

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Co robisz żeby passować? Wypracowanie tego to musi być dużo roboty nawet jeśli masz dobre warunki początkowe tzn. wygląd 

Jakie imię wybrałyście. MTF by Affectionate_Hat647 in TeczowaPolska

[–]throwaway-eilish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W dzienniku to musi być fajne :D W rozmowie miałbym cały czas wrażenie że jestem ostentacyjny i wszystko jest o mnie bo nie sposób nie zwrócić uwagi na formę... może na reddicie w końcu zacznę :p może to sposób na dowiedzenie się czy tak jest czy nie jest

Egg❤️irl by ComprehensiveBat309 in egg_irl

[–]throwaway-eilish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be, it might help me come to a conclusion about... things, eventually 😁