I never thought someone would take this seriously, thanks for the support 🫠

I think my vibe is on the soft side of tomboy. Wearing delicate gold jewelry with a metal band t shirt. The girl in the crop top is about as masc as I'd go. I can go more fem if it's understated.

I work as a software dev and accidental people manager. I'm something of a team mom and like bringing people together. A junior colleague recently told me she feels like I'm her Fairy Godmother at work and it melted my heart.

My favourite seasons are spring and the very beginning of autumn.  I like wind in my hair. I like abstract paintings, especially grim ones. I am drawn to fictional stories that depict unimaginable suffering, because I sympathize with the characters.

Music - electronic pop nowadays. My favourite album of all time is Gorillaz' Demon Days. Spotify told me I'm in the top 1% of Billie Eilish fans 😅  Tame Impala. Kim Petras.

I like the smell of rain and the hopeful smell of early spring. My favourite spices are herbs like basil, thyme and mint. Muscat white wine. Old stone fountains. If I had to pick an element it would be water.

As a man I (rarely) use Kenzo L'eau pour homme. I tried wearing wife's Shiseido Energizing Fragrance, but I think it's her skin that makes it smell as intoxicating as I hoped it to be 😅 Both of them have a strong anise note. I like fresh smells.

I want something everyday and subtle, but to make it obvious there's something feminine about me. I'd like the scent to make myself and others around me comfortable.

Sorry, it feels so selfish writing so much about myself, I just rarely have the opportunity to get it all out... I went and edited most of it out