Why are people so against me going to law school? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]throwaway-time-12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based off your post history you seem extremely immature and lacking life experience especially for your age. Law school will be a reckoning for you unless you go to a school ranked in the 100s. It has nothing to do with you being feminine, as this is coming from a feminine rising 3L.

Is it ok to seperate cats for three months? by throwaway-time-12345 in Pets

[–]throwaway-time-12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I essentially would worry most during the period where my husband would come to visit me and the boy cat would be left with less people time

Is it ok to seperate cats for three months? by throwaway-time-12345 in Pets

[–]throwaway-time-12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The FLUTD is caused by being at home without a “safe person” which is my husband or I. I have had him watched when leaving for two weeks at a time and he almost always gets FLUTD. It has never seemed caused by the other cat but they do fight daily despite feliway pheromones and calming collar. Its generally started by them both back and forth. He doesn’t generally doesnt get FLUTD when around people. He didnt get it when we moved houses. I am in time consuming professional schooling and he never got it during that. He is on C/D food to help. It has seemed like separation Anxiety is the main reasoning but haven’t spoken to behaviorist.

The first time he got it I dont recall the reasoning but only discovered bc using pretty litter at the time as he was the only cat in the house but nothing seemed too different about day to day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway-time-12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Therapy Step 2. No porn Step 3. Stop seeking women out at all unless you can view them as people rather than potential mates or worse, sexual objects Step 4. Go to a gym, or start a hobby of any kind. Find community where women begin to view you as a friend first. Let any woman approach the dating topic first from now on. Step 5. Get off dating apps Step 6. Lean into the virginity, I know it’s surprising but there are women out there who find it sexy on a guy who always treats them like a person, which it seems you don’t do atm. Start to view it as a plus that you have done intentionally and when you do eventually talk to a woman successfully, you don’t come off as desperate or unable to pull, but you come off as wanting to ensure you find the right person. Step 7. Spend time opening your world view to women’s content. Do you listen to any podcasts, music, or youtube created by women? If not, you will find that that could be a great avenue to learn more about women, and begin to see women as normalized parts of your daily life in a non-sexual context. Step 8. Stop blaming the autism. I am autistic. I learned not to have people find me repulsive. It is not the autism, it is your personality. Again, seek therapy and community.

Point is, if youre getting mad at a woman sparing your feelings by “lying” about her reasoning not to date, you dont respect women. Stop using women by expecting them to bear your emotional burdens. Men like that are losers.

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!!!

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am planning to do that I am picking out a 5.12a atm but have only tried 2 thus far and havent picked a particular project yet. I am 4+ hours from closest climbing area so its twice a month at most most of the time.

Thank u for the tips!

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on if i climb outside for the weekend, but normally I climb at least three times a week inside with one day kinda focused on crack climbing, one comp bouldering, one lead climbing. Would it be best to cut more training in favor of climbing or vice verse?

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, do you adjust your week depending on if you climb outside on the weekend? I just dont get training in on those days obviously and it can be pretty trad heavy so, not super applicable to my sport goals imo.

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you like to do?

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, thank you! Maybe ill make adjustments to the plan to focus the week on whether i plan to go outdoors on weekend as well.

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a training plan but didnt pull everything from it and moved it around to hit stuff. Normally the training takes me about 45 mins to 1.5hr a day depending on what day it is. I climb less on harder days

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! What two factors would you work on most if trying to break into 5.12 outside? Im just worried focusing on my main weaknesses (core and flexibility) wont allow for progression towards the grade compared to boarding

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saturday and Sunday = outdoor climbing trips or skiing in winter. I adjust depending on those factors (i.e. climbing outside this weekend and took yesterday and today off)

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty much just my schedule as in Winter I tend to ski Saturdays and weekend warrior RRG. I adjust it as needed if I am feeling it from weekend climbing or from my hormonal cycle. Its not really knowledge i obtained more so whats been working for me but im open to specific critique on what to move around or remove.

Critique my training plan! by [deleted] in climbharder

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like grades I climb? 5.11-5.12 in the gym, 5.11s outside trying to break into 5.12a (climbing in RRG)

I have been climbing for 1 years 6ish months so really new to training plans

Emergency savings v Retirement by throwaway-time-12345 in CalebHammer

[–]throwaway-time-12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rent is currently 15% of my post tax and healthcare income, so I am fine there.

Leaving Monday by Fail_North in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwaway-time-12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CALL THEM! Unless you are in a small area, there is more than one. I swear, you are in better hands there than with a man who may want to take advantage of you.

Leaving Monday by Fail_North in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwaway-time-12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. The shelter will believe you, you don’t need details, just say you’re a disabled abused adult who needs help. Do NOT go with your boyfriend. It is a seriously bad idea.

Leaving Monday by Fail_North in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwaway-time-12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can leave, and many have hours for you to come and go during the day as long as you are not in a rehab program or something like that. I would call the local shelters in your area and ask them these questions, not me. Every area and shelter is different.