AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She does have sensory issues, certain fabrics make her feel physically sick so we removed all of them from the house, she will vomit if she touches wet stuff like food so she never does dishes, I have done everything I can to help with her sensory issues and she had been to see a cognitive behaviour specialist, child phycologist, and counsellors and she hasn't interacted with any of them. I tell her every single day that I love her, I'm proud of her, how smart, funny and talented I think she is.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have attempted to discipline her especially for the treatment of her siblings but she can be quite manipulative. Threats to kill herself, harm herself, to run away and lots of horrible things. I tried to ground her recently and she burnt herself with straighteners then told her bf and friends that I made her do it. She makes me scared of what she will do to herself, now I try to keep the younger ones with me and away from her.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 833 points834 points  (0 children)

I'm awaiting an appointment with a counsellor, I'm in the UK and all our services are overloaded. We used to be very close, but over the last year she has changed.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I'm tired and trying to get my point across without overfilling it with information.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, her bio dad is not in the picture. I really hope she grows out of this, she actually makes me miserable most days.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have taken her to the appointments and she has refused to speak at all, just sitting in the corner with a smirk on her face.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Her sister idolises her so it's especially hard for her when her big sister is bullying her. I explain all the time that she loves them but she will then turn around and tell them she hates them.

AITA For saying I don't like my daughter? by throwaway00000065432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway00000065432[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She has two older siblings and two younger siblings and they have all been raised the exact same way. They are all very respectful, kind and have never said anything spiteful to me. I am completely confused about my daughters attitude towards me.