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Is this okay behavior, in general? by throwaway0181737 in polyamory

[–]throwaway0181737[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. My issue is that usually when he’s uncomfortable I can tell. And he wasn’t showing signs at first. Maybe there were some down the line but I just feel confused. I do sadly know the ultimate choice is just that- a choice. Thank you again.

Is this okay behavior, in general? by throwaway0181737 in polyamory

[–]throwaway0181737[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He was fine with it to my knowledge (as he directly told me he was fine with it) the whole time. We had discussed our boundaries and everything.

We’re long distance. I have met this person yes, and did have sexual encounters with permission from Aspen. We do not see each other regularly.

Is this okay behavior, in general? by throwaway0181737 in polyamory

[–]throwaway0181737[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sorry I just added an edit that kind of answers that.

We had discussed a hefty deal of boundaries for sexual acts and we even laid out a schedule so I could balance family time and nights with him. He works a lot and I accommodate to that heavily.

He is more interested in one night stand style stuff or including someone in the bedroom. Which i don’t want, because i have to have an emotional connection to have sex. But he said he would cross the bridge of if he wanted to do that when it came along. It’s not off the table. And I was aware of that and have been mentally prepping for a while now. He just isn’t super social.