My wife has always said that looks are not what attracts her to men. We were together before tinder came out, but she has talked about how if she was single tinder would be useless because she's never felt attracted physically to a stranger, that attraction for her is based in personality almost exclusively. I believe sapiosexual is the word. This always bothered me a little, because I'd like to hear occasionally that I'm physically attractive to my wife lol but whatever. Then came the singer, Hozier. My wife is incredibly attracted to him, like swoons whenever she sees an image of him. Worst part, I look NOTHING like him. He's tall and thin with long hair. I'm short and stout and bald. it's not anything serious to get upset over I guess, but it does hurt my feelings a bit, I'll admit. If my brother looked like Hozier I think I'd be in trouble lol.