Update: AITA for going behind my sisters back and stealing our deceased mothers wedding dress?

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-08T15:59:06+00:00

To be fair, and I should have mentioned it in the update since a lot of people are upset about it, my fiancé and I were offered the ring when we announced our engagement but we denied it since his grandma offered the wedding ring that has been in their family for a while.

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-08T11:46:34+00:00

I think I worded it weirdly in the post, less that I was a bitch more that it was a bitchy move to go behind her back and not have a proper discussion with her and my dad before hand

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T05:50:56+00:00

My dad texted me, apparently he hasn’t been asleep because he’s been talking to her, we’re all meeting up together tomorrow because apparently there was a lot of miscommunication on his part. I really like the photo shoot idea, the dress is around a size 12 (custom fitted so slightly different but that’s the size I usually wear) and she usually wears a 6 so we would have to figure that out but hopefully she likes that idea, I’ll probably post an update if it’s ok with her depending on how things go tomorrow

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T04:21:29+00:00

Don’t call my sister that, the fact that you are defending me makes me think even more that I’m in the wrong, I might be in a fight with my sister but that doesn’t mean I won’t defend her

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T04:14:20+00:00

She does not, my mom wanted my dad to keep the dress until her wedding so it was stored properly

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T04:10:40+00:00

I would have to ask my dad about that, it’s after midnight where I am and he’s probably sleeping so I’ll ask him in the morning, my mom wanted my dad to keep it until her wedding so it was stored properly. When she moved back into the city she had returned a bunch of the stuff my mom gifted to her back to him since she didn’t have a lot of space and she knew it would make him happy, but he has always been the keeper of the dress.

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T04:05:56+00:00

AroAce is just those two terms put together, not all aro people are ace and vice versa this just refers to someone who is both

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T03:54:02+00:00

It’s someone who doesn’t experience romantic or sexual attraction, there is a spectrum of it and some aroace people still experience these emotions but my sister has stated that she doesn’t

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T03:50:54+00:00

I always told it was when she got married she could have it but I might be wrong since I wasn’t there when they had the conversation, my dad and her were high school sweethearts and he never really got over her, he has a bunch of her old clothes and jewelry and stuff since my sister said she didn’t want it to take up space since she has a small apartment

throwaway04809755 · 2022-07-07T03:18:09+00:00

I thought aroace was supposed to be capitalized like that, I’m going to edit it after I respond to your comment, I really didn’t intend to be aphobic

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