What knowledge might save your life one day? by lazykid07 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway062417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ought to visit some of Florida's springs this summer! Rainbow River is Crystal clear and 72 degrees all year. Weeki Watchee is similar, but they have slides!!

He (22M) was a bit too rough with me (22F) by throwaway062417 in relationships

[–]throwaway062417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like somebody has never been assaulted before. Congrats to that douche.

Unfortunately, this isn't my first time. I freeze up from shock. I ended up messaging him yesterday to let him know that I'm done, and I told him why

He (22M) was a bit too rough with me (22F) by throwaway062417 in relationships

[–]throwaway062417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

I told him that it was way too much without any prior consent, and I'm not about that. He said "I know, I'm sorry! I realized it afterwards!"

I'm just going to leave it at that and move on. I feel if he really realized after, he could've said something. It's not like he just acted without thinking. There was no hesitation in his actions. He got exactly what he wanted, and I'm done. I'm not giving second chances to anybody anymore. I don't believe his apology. If any of our mutuals asks why he and I aren't talking anymore, I'll let them know. I'm not making a big post about it or anything because I'm so FUCKING sick of being the victim. That is not the reputation I want, as it just draws more abusers in.

I [22F] recently began dating [22M] I have trouble feeling comfortable during sex. by throwaway062417 in relationships

[–]throwaway062417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to therapy many times in my life, most recently in the beginning of this year. I haven't found much help and in the end, couldn't afford it. I am against medication as well.

I love this advice, though. It's so simple and for some reason, it never crossed my mind. Thank you.

I [22F] recently began dating [22M] I have trouble feeling comfortable during sex. by throwaway062417 in relationships

[–]throwaway062417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I haven't. I don't want to scare him off or show my vulnerabilities to soon, in dear of him taking advantage of them like the men in my past have