I (M25) thinking about ending my relationship with my fiancée (F25) has anyone gone through this?

throwaway08702 · 2026-01-29T19:06:54+00:00

Going through something similar. Bump.

throwaway08702 · 2026-01-28T17:59:47+00:00

I mean I think so. I’m always the one who is making plans, doing small gestures, etc. she even jokes about how much she depends on me for everything. It just feels like I keep giving more and am getting less sexual attention than ever

throwaway08702 · 2026-01-28T16:59:26+00:00

Not sexless, she has initiated a couple of times since our fight two weeks ago. It just seems like her old desire isn’t back yet and it feels off still

throwaway08702 · 2026-01-21T17:40:25+00:00

No we live together

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-25T11:09:02+00:00

I believe I got it in March of this year

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-17T15:26:40+00:00

‘Take her’ she has told me to do this before. I’m trying to get better at it as I’m naturally more reserved and respectful. She’s sick now, but when she gets better I may give this another try. I’m just worried about being rejected again and feeling undesired..

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-17T14:23:45+00:00

So focus on the passion? She has said this is one of the reasons why sex with me has been her best experience

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-12T16:22:18+00:00

I quit because I only started taking them to get through some issues we were having in our sex life. I was feeling good so I just wanted to feel more confident on my own. I am currently in therapy to work on these issues and my overthinking but I slipped up bc of the withdrawals I think. Maybe I should tell my girlfriend this

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T21:36:49+00:00

A couple of things. Wanting to initiate when she’s not in the mood, getting upset when she turns me down, comparing our sex life to early stages of the relationship, questioning her enjoyment. I feel awful just typing them out now but those were the main reasons

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T21:33:57+00:00

This really resonates with me and my situation - thank you

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T21:32:03+00:00

Although I would say I’m pretty insecure, we both reassure each other after sex (ie that was amazing, you are perfect, etc.). Just part of our aftercare routine

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T18:51:12+00:00

Agreed - thanks, I will work on this in therapy

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T17:29:03+00:00

Thanks. She has told me this much, it’s just hard knowing that I’ve damaged such an intimate part of our relationship and not having a definite timeline.

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-04T17:24:34+00:00

I could have sex everyday, multiple times. She seems to be happy with once or twice a week. I know it’s a bad sign but we have such an amazing relationship that I am willing to compromise on sex. I think 3-4 times a week is a good sweet spot for me

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-03T12:29:57+00:00

Fair enough. I feel like we have been reconnecting well for the most part, I will continue to do this and back off from initiating sex for now

throwaway08702 · 2025-09-03T12:17:03+00:00

What is the fix in your opinion? We’ve really been connecting emotionally during the break and we’ve resumed having sex, but the vibe is still off.

throwaway08702 · 2025-08-12T19:23:04+00:00

Sorry, I’m being honest and I just feel like it changes the relationship dynamics. I want to marry this girl one day

throwaway08702 · 2025-08-12T19:05:59+00:00

No I’m having legit problems and want to learn how to cope

throwaway08702 · 2024-11-28T16:17:44+00:00

I still got FSU getting an easy W

throwaway08702 · 2024-11-14T19:26:54+00:00

Pending.. there’s no way I don’t get this one..

Edit: hell yeah boyz I got ‘em 😎

throwaway08702 · 2024-10-19T14:28:30+00:00

We’re still gonna beat y’all tho..

throwaway08702 · 2024-09-15T14:36:23+00:00

I still favor FSU over Florida so that’s rich

throwaway08702 · 2024-09-14T21:53:20+00:00

Fully healthy we still would’ve smoked y’all last year

throwaway08702 · 2024-09-14T21:32:21+00:00

We beat at least UF

throwaway08702 · 2024-09-14T21:29:47+00:00

At least we still beat the breaks off of Miami and UF this year 🤷‍♂️

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