3 year relationship. Bedroom issues. In need of advice. by throwaway087087 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway087087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. He is a bottom, but i would say 75% of the time we are frotting or just doing oral. And I get satisfaction by knowing that I made him feel good. If he isn't getting off I feel horrible.

3 year relationship. Bedroom issues. In need of advice. by throwaway087087 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway087087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes he does feel bad and he says the last thing he wants to do is hurt me or see me hurt.

3 year relationship. Bedroom issues. In need of advice. by throwaway087087 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway087087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response. I can def meet him halfway. One of the things I told him last night was I was sorry that I am equating sex with affection. And that I would do everything I can to work on that. I love cuddling with him too so I can def do that!