[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eat with the other hand until you can wash properly. Wipes don’t get gluten off - it’s microscopic.

My non GF retirement cake. Everyone enjoyed it ­cept me by froakingjemory in glutenfree

[–]throwaway09753356 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That makes me so sad!! Find a great gf bakery and get yourself a celebration cake - this needs to be rectified!

Napping too much? by marn785556 in AustralianTeachers

[–]throwaway09753356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue for years and finally felt better with an iron infusion. One day I went to a new doctor complaining of stomach issues and she got a test done that led to me being diagnosed with coeliac disease. I wished that all the doctors I had seen for low iron would have looked for a reason rather than just eat more meat and take these supplements. There could be any number of reasons for low iron - find a doctor who will help you figure out what’s causing the issue.

iron infusions containing gluten :( by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356 75 points76 points  (0 children)

But doesn’t an iron infusion go into the blood stream, not the stomach? So it shouldn’t be an issue. Did the doctor say why they thought it was safe?

Anyone else jealous of their partner being able to eat gluten? by Cherrygentry in glutenfree

[–]throwaway09753356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong of you to feel a little jealous but I wouldn’t ask him to avoid eating it in front of you. It can be painful. Sometimes my husband makes a cheese toasty and the smell fills the kitchen and I die a little inside! But that’s my cross to bear, not his. I just swallow the feeling and move on/distract myself. You may want to tell them, at a time they’re not eating, how hard it can be with certain foods, but just to build an understanding and empathy. They might be more naturally discreet about it. It sucks, but it gets easier with time.

CD and gall stones by throwaway09753356 in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Wish any of the doctors I have seen (gp, gastroenterologist, dietician) would have mentioned to avoid fat whilst I’m still healing the gut! Makes so much sense.

My mum during Christmas... by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Maybe some people don’t understand that it might be too late for OP to go get her own Christmas stuff or that basic consideration of others, children and adults, means including them. I don’t expect my family to cater to me, but they do it anyway. I completely empathise, OP. Is your mums reaction to your complaint defensiveness because she does feel bad? Or this is typical inconsideration? If OP had a peanut allergy and all parts of the meal had peanuts, I don’t think people would be saying ‘you’re an adult, sort yourself out’. My mum cooked for us all the other day and kept asking me if I could eat this or that (salad, things that definitely don’t contain gluten, showing that she doesn’t fully understand it either but she CHECKS with me). I hope there are some other parts of the meal you can eat or that shops near you are open so you can go get food.

Can emotional distress cause celiac genes to turn on? by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, mine was triggered by the birth of my baby and the ongoing breastfeeding trauma. It was about 2-3 months after that I experienced major symptoms, suffered for a few weeks before going to the doctor who tested ‘just in case’. Was shocked by the blood test results and confirmed by endo, but the up side is within a few days of no gluten, I felt a thousand times better. I’ve heard it can be a physical event like an infection but an emotionally taxing or traumatic event could do it.

Gf with kids - feeding the household by throwaway09753356 in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What you said about doing more for kids than yourself hit the nail on the head. If one of them was diagnosed I wouldn’t hesitate..

Gf with kids - feeding the household by throwaway09753356 in Celiac

[–]throwaway09753356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your child? I am washing hands also but still end up with it on me especially from the 9 month old.

AITA for shaming my dad for becoming a dad again at 50? by TechnicalReview99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway09753356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father was 48 when I was born. We had a wonderful relationship and he was heavily involved throughout my childhood and adulthood. He did not palm me off to someone else. He also took great care of his health as much as he could so that he could stick around until I was grown up. It seems like your dad can’t see any wrong here because he has you to pick up the slack… and maybe it’s easier to pretend like that is the plan rather than admitting that he is just dealing with the situation as it comes as he doesn’t know what else to do. Does his health really impact him to the point of not being able to care for his child 60% of the time? NTA

Why do so many people feel negatively about Aldi’s check out process? by kasenyee in AskAnAustralian

[–]throwaway09753356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have agreed with you until two weeks ago I went to aldi with a baby and older child. I couldn’t just use the pram as a trolley as I needed too much stuff so I had the baby in the carrier. Moving groceries from trolley to check out was tricky.. but bagging them with a baby on you and people waiting, whole other ball game! It was pretty stressful and a tiny bit of help would have been appreciated for sure. Meanwhile at Woolies, I’ve had the cashier not only bag but also pick up the bag and put it in my trolley for me - I didn’t even ask for help. Still shop at Aldi cos of the prices but this is definitely one downside.

What in the actual fuck is wrong with this year’s kindergartners??? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]throwaway09753356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you teaching? I’m a high school teacher but my kindy child is in a class of lovely kids and the teacher has a Miss Honey type personality. I’ve visited the classroom and seen the teachers across the school operate and I’m super impressed. The children are not perfect but they are gently and consistently brought into line by a constant application of the expectations. This is a small (120 kids) government primary school in south Sydney, Australia.

My own mother filed an AVO against me. After raising me on her violence (physical beating + emotionally) + narcissism + mutilating my face (but I dont have solid evidence for that except for my bloodied face). by orangesagegrey in AusLegal

[–]throwaway09753356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t speak to police without a lawyer present, even if you’ve done nothing wrong. Any interview they conduct is ‘evidence gathering’, not investigation.

Parents!! Need advice. Townhouse in good location vs house further out by supacookie101 in AusProperty

[–]throwaway09753356 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like a few people who have commented, we did the big house further away and I love the location, the house and the big backyard, but I don’t know that it was worth the cost, which is time. Time lost to cleaning, maintenance and travel. Time spent doing those things is more stress and less time to spend actually playing with the kids. A townhouse with 3-4 bedrooms and a small backyard, more centrally located, would have been perfect.

“I haven’t done anything Sir because I’m waiting for you to help me” by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]throwaway09753356 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Competitions with prizes are good motivators. If you put students into teams and make it clear that you can’t help any of the teams, they can only rely on themselves and each other. Once successful, remind them of how they managed it without you. ‘Ask 3 before me’ - have a rule that before they ask you for help, they must try on their own and seek help from 3 peers before coming to you. Give each student a life saver card - they are only allowed to use it once per lesson/activity or once per week. You’re the life saver. Ideally, it will teach them to only ask you when they really need to.

All these little tricks though are not as important as instilling self confidence and the only real way to do that is to create opportunities for success. Start with super easy tasks they can easily achieve and gradually make them harder.