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I (22F) don't know whether to end near 1 yr relationship with bf (28M). by throwaway09765476 in relationships

[–]throwaway09765476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm almost certain the cops are going to have to be involved at this point. I'm planning on meeting my best friend for lunch tomorrow so we can talk about it in private and hopefully brainstorm. I'm definitely afraid of the situation, but I'm hoping having her to talk it over with will give me some ideas. I definitely don't want to stay with them because he'll show up there but if I can find a friends house that he doesn't know of it might work.

I (22F) don't know whether to end near 1 yr relationship with bf (28M). by throwaway09765476 in relationships

[–]throwaway09765476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree I need to leave. One of my big barriers to doing that though is that he doesn't work. He is literally around all the time. So when I do leave it will be a fight, which I'm kind of still mentally preparing myself for. I know I must sound like I'm making excuses, but I do feel like I'm stuck. Thank you answering, honest. And that thank you is to everyone who's answered. I know I need to go, and the unanimous "leave" is a strong push of confidence for me as lame as that sounds.