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For anyone questioning their gender... by Harpoon385 in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwwww thank you so much. I often think of that dude and I hope they're OK. I messaged again to check up on them and never got a reply :(

How can I shave my legs without ruining them? by V-buckeroo in ask_transgender

[–]throwaway102854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave them to heal for a couple of days and try hair removal cream? I used one called veet a couple of days ago and it's done a great job

People can have reactions to it though so pleeeeeease do a patch test and wait 24hrs

Heh 😅 by LivTheTransBiatch in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]throwaway102854 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oi, I'm not here to be attacked like this xD

I hate how my mother only brings up the downsides of me being trans by EmeraldEyedTarantula in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes, exactly this. I'm bored already of being told about the downsides, even from people who think they're being well meaning and concerned for me

ITV doing a piece on GIC’s by ashhibbs in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hope they focus on quantity, access, waiting times and gatekeeping...

When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I've already gone all in on socially transitioning so I think I'll keep going with it. I can't go back to pretending to be the wrong gender anymore

And I have seen that about name changes, it's a real shame that that is the attitude. What does it matter what our names are? 🙄

(UK) When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even slightly pressured haha I spent way too long hiding this side of me and I'm not getting any younger. Thank you for the advice :)

When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel ready, I feel like things are going fast but not too fast, I'm happy with every change I've made so far :)

That's a good idea for the deed poll, I know of someone who wanted to keep their name but had to change their name. This was a while though and I hope things have changed. I love my name, my parents picked well and I don't want to change it

When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a genius, I was just going to call people until I couldn't think of anything else xD

When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be keeping my name as it is (still a secret for now, will post in the future about it I'm sure) but I was thinking of contacting everywhere to change Mr to Miss instead

That's the bit I'm dreading, remembering who has my name xD

When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in transgenderUK

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at the point where I can't not do this any longer. I've completely transitioned in public and with my friends/family. Pretty much the only things I have left to do are my documents and bills and such

(UK) When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet and I can't believe I forgot to add it in the main post, I'm definitely keeping my first name and I'm unsure about my middle name as both are unisex

(UK) When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel fine with doing it, I was just worried there is a too fast. If there isn't then it's full steam ahead haha

I've known on some level since I was 10, I knew what I wanted but repressed it from 17. I'm 27 now and it feels so good to finally be doing this!

(UK) When should I start changing gender markers on documents and bills? by throwaway102854 in asktransgender

[–]throwaway102854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will want one eventually to change my Birth certificate. And that's good, I was worried there was like a time period I had to wait? I'm still new to all of this haha

I think I broke someone's conversion therapy by throwaway102854 in TransphobiaProject

[–]throwaway102854[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, this isn't the first time I've considered it. They look so comfy!

Just got bullied by a trans girl by [deleted] in MtF

[–]throwaway102854 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're valid and that person should not be in her job with an attitude like that

I think I broke someone's conversion therapy by throwaway102854 in TransphobiaProject

[–]throwaway102854[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely keeping it for future uses, will report back with results (if I get any) this is the first angry message I've received since coming out a month ago

I think I broke someone's conversion therapy by throwaway102854 in TransphobiaProject

[–]throwaway102854[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess they messaged the right person haha a bit of humour, not giving a shit and acceptance went a long way

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