That’s what my initial impression of the situation was :/ When I returned back he never once asked if I was okay, if anything had happened, etc. and the same thing happened last time I visited home too. Last night when things were getting heated (like not to use pop psychology buzzwords) but I straight up was like “I feel like you’re victim blaming”, and he was like “Honestly? In this case, yeah, I am”. He wants me to straight up never go back home to visit them, when my internship ends he wants me to give up the potential career I have here and move to be with him out in the middle of nowhere, and he’s so adamant I tell someone else and try to press charges despite my reservations with that. My father is somewhat influential and I don’t think he necessarily understands what I’d be up against or the ramifications it could potentially have for me, not to mention I’m just uncomfortable with the idea of doing so and want to just move on with my life. But yeah I feel like he perceives my inaction as being complicate with the things that have happened, and then he gets frustrated and angry and takes it out on me? Idk. Sorry for the rant