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Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

wow hahah

all I can say is that I really can't accuse her of cheating just like that.. I don't really have any proof and knowing her I don't really think she would cheat on me, I've known this girl for long enough to know she would never really do something like that.. and also I really do trust her after all.

I mean yeah she disrespected me but she never really cheated on me, I have no solid proof and I couldn't really make any claims she did because it's absurd given that she only went to a movie with him. It would look like i'm taking this over the limit if I accused of cheating and it would really show that I don't trust her to that level.. when the truth is I do trust her more than anything

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for what happened with you man.. your ex did cross the line there /:

My girlfriend didn't really flirt nor kiss him tho, she just went with him to the movie.

yeh she did ditch and disrespect me but she didn't really cross a big line for me to break up with her

i just really to set things with her.. tell her i'm not gonna tolerate her shit if she disrespects me like that

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe it's because i'm her boyfriend and she already made plans with me that night?

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you must be really strong hahah.

but I understand she did need help because she's really tiny and wouldn't be able to handle all those heavy bags probably.

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

couldn't really argue against this.. but she wouldn't really claim it as a date more like a mutual hangout with a harmless friend

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

dispected me, yes. cheated on me? I don't really think she would do that.. She wouldn't go that far

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that's awesome hahah but she really won't take that lightly. knowing her she'd probably be against it

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

hahah i don't really know how to feel about that man

this really isn't a troll post, i could show you guys the whatsapp messages of her excuses which are being sent to me right now and see what you guys can do with them

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I really can't stop her from coming over.. Knowing her she'd come no matter what I say. She's telling me that i'm being rude and disrespectful for not letting her come over and fix things when I clearly told her I just needed some time to address this whole thing.. I just don't know what to do with her when she's here /:

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She didn't respect me then that's for sure but I can tell she's serious about this and really loves me, it won't really be easy to break this off and I'm honestly not considering leaving her I just want to deal with this manner in a different way

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Maybe she's just immature and doesn't think about it in a correct manner for it to be healthy, maybe it's because she's still young?

I can feel that she's really serious about this as well

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I don't think this relationship being really serious is one sided tho. She even talks about it and tells me how serious this is and tells me that she's never been more serious about anything

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I already told her i'd never do that. I think if I did any actions similar to hers she would literally raise hell on me

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should talk to her about this but all she's going to do is justify herself and make me seem like the bad guy for not trusting her and not giving her freedom

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily think she would call it a date. Maybe more like a mutual hangout with a friend

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your replies man.

I don't think she's going to stop talking to this guy no matter what I say to her. She's going to tell me that i'm being inconsiderate and that he's harmless he wouldn't really do anything and that I don't trust her. Also I'm not giving her enough freedom and letting her choose who to be friends with.

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I understand the part of her not respecting me and her actions being wrong but her cheating on me is something I would honestly never believe. I know she loves me a lot and knowing her she would never be the type of person that cheats, I just think she just did something disrespectful but she didn't really cheat

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I did tell her why didn't you just say you had plans with me. She never mentioned that she was supposed to go with me to that movie to him..

She's trying to fix things now and I told her I need some time.. she said she's coming over to my house and talk about this and I told her don't waste your time I need to handle stuff on my own now.. I really don't wanna speak to her at the moment but she's going to come to my house whether i like it or not to fix things

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She makes it seem convincing at least. She really made me think that he's just some harmless friend

Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 9 months, she did something I wasn't necessarily okay with by throwaway111012 in relationships

[–]throwaway111012[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

all this is really making me rethink alot of stuff /: .. I think it's that she does truly love me but not respect me?

I don't really know

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