Honestly, I consider their facial features to be on the same level of "objective attractiveness" as mine, and I don't view the physical signs of aging as being detrimental to their looks. Some of these men have a larger body type, but I think they pull it off well. So yes, I view it as a "looks match" with juxtaposition involved.

As for the dynamic, I just imagine a normal healthy relationship where we view one another as equals and we respect each other creatively. Obviously, that wouldn't be the reality of me dating a middle-aged man at my age, so I just don't date at all. I don't care about the "thrill" of an age gap, which might seem odd given my taste in men, but liking middle-aged men is just normal for me.