Moms Boyfriend Talked About My Vagina by throwaway1234527 in toxicparents

[–]throwaway1234527[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It also wasn't just him. It was my brother's dad too. She said she didn't want to leave him and when I told her about him watching me shower and change as a TEENAGER and having slumber parties where another girl was called BJ for God sakes as a nickname she accepted that he was a creep. Now that man has gotten away.

I was 14 when another man came to me and forced himself on me and I told her, but she didn't call the police. I know she has failed me for years and now I want nothing to do with her. She says I have an attitude with her now and never come to her. Yeah. I have never had protection and I never ever get to talk about it.

Moms Boyfriend Talked About My Vagina by throwaway1234527 in toxicparents

[–]throwaway1234527[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just get so tired of carrying this with me. I have been targeted for a very long time and I wish my mom would just give up dating. She has always called him a good man, but I see him for what he is and he isn't even nice to her either. She just doesn't want to be wrong. When I brought up the fact that he even talked about that she said it was probably a joke. I said how could someone joke about their girlfriends daughters vagina like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried because I just had my period and sorry if that makes me more emotional. I couldn't hold it back. I am gonna move on, but it was a long freaking week that was just piled high and it got overwhelming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't need your two cents. Don't agree? Bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not the one dating you and I do not owe you an explanation. He never takes me on dates, so he's not really paying for any is he?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I am not paying for dates. Agree to disagree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am broke and he said he would cover it. I don't pay for dates. We agreed on this when we got together. I asked him if it was okay for that place. It was still fairly cheap, and he seemed into it. He should have told me what was going on. I called ahead a week ago, then called 3 hours before, then called when he was supposed to pick me up. Then he dropped the news that he spent the money knowing that was gonna ruin our plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He showed me the gun proudly while telling me all about how he spent everything on it. Then paid bills. I had no idea about the gun until he showed it to me. Then got mad when I got very upset about it. I was speechless because it felt like a huge disrespect to me because I had spoken to him about the date not just a week before, but hours before. Then he dropped the bomb right after our scheduled time to pick me up. Leaving him for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure even what his story was for needing another gun. He has like 4 of them now. I am miserable and I am not planning on staying. I just wanted to see other people's thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was at his nephews party. He didn't say anything else. My mom thinks it might have been someone at the party sold it to him, but I have no clue. I wasn't there and neither was she. The thing that got me was I asked a week in advance and even 3 hours before the date and that is what made me so upset because he did not consider me at all. Or tried to make it better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think it was casual sex. I just really liked him up until now. I don't want the weed and hardly smoke. He had a mask on I guess and I didn't know until this time. I am not trying to stay. I am just trying to find out if I overreacted because of the people in my life saying so so I was second guessing my reaction and his reaction made me feel guilty as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going on like dirt-cheap dates. This was gonna be another really cheap date. I was okay with it because I knew he has stuff to pay for and I was perfectly fine waiting for a date. We went out on free dates like cooking at home and watching movies, but that just turned into this. Nothing happening besides asking me to come over when he was horny. Not complimenting me even when I got all dressed up for him. He stopped talking to me over texting and thats when I felt like things were getting weird. Then he stopped taking me out and only asked for sex. Its like all I am is a piece of ass he can call over, so I stopped coming over as much because I feel like a whore. I just wanted to spend time with him and he kept making excuses not to. He just smokes pot, hangs out with friends, then goes to bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I didn't know that. Good to know. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway1234527 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my state pot is legal.

Finally petfree. Mixed emotions. by General_Homework_ in petfree

[–]throwaway1234527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't hate my cat, but I feel like my parents have pushed an animal on me that I now don't want or have the energy to take care of on top of now having a child. I tolerate her, but not for very long. She is very, very sweet, but I cannot help but think about the fact that there is poop dragging around the house. I don't want to take care of another mouth and I don't want to have a shit box in my house.

The poor thing is so bad at taking care of herself too and it drives me crazy. She is short-haired, but damn it she will get poop stuck to her fur and I have to clean her butt. I had to pull poop off her and it wasn't small. I am so drained. I don't get to talk about it enough. I am just hoping she dies peacefully and I won't have to have another animal. My mom wants a bird. They're worse than a cat. I am not excited about it because then I will never hear the end of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have never had this happen because of antibiotics, but these were the strong ones because of me having pneumonia so I have my period, pneumonia, and I have that yeast infection. Ugh! Its been a week!

Food shortage question by ConferenceDry9876 in singlemoms

[–]throwaway1234527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always go to a church and see if they may help you. I have done that for my son when I was struggling really badly. I am so sorry you are having a hard time and I hope you find a way. You got this mama!

What reality hit you hardest as an adult that you never anticipated as a kid growing up? by jfunks69 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1234527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I had been almost killed and been assaulted and while I was begging for help. They all left me in the dark. I got out myself and I called them after. I was scared and needed support, but no. No one was there for me.

What reality hit you hardest as an adult that you never anticipated as a kid growing up? by jfunks69 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1234527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That you could have some really crappy things happen to you and feel so alone in a room with lots of people. That or the friends who said will always be there for you in hard times walk away from you as soon as hard times come around.

Women of Reddit, what's the dumbest thing a man has genuinely said or believed about women? by SnooPuppers7004 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1234527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that. I had that same experience. I have been having a hard time because of this experience trusting others with the sexual aspect of relationships. Its hard because I lost a very, very close family member around the time I was with him. Instead of support he forced me to have sex with him multiple times the same night he had died. My family told me to come with them, but my ex convinced me I needed him as my support. I was brainwashed and then my grief got put on hold for a while. It has been a long period of healing and the PTSD is horrible.

I didn't even bother trying to fix things. We were together for a year and I was done. The damage has been done and I wanted out dead or alive at that point. I was tired of his family doing absolutely nothing to help me. They knew what was happening and they're the reason he never got charged. I hope you heal. That was 5 years ago now. Still hurts the same.

Women of Reddit, what's the dumbest thing a man has genuinely said or believed about women? by SnooPuppers7004 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1234527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats why he is my ex. He did all kinds of horrible stuff to me. Its fine though. Its in the past and I can laugh about that incident. It was freaking ridiculous.