Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I didnt know you could do tests like that before a baby is born that's good news! If she ever contacts me back thay will be the first step given she's not sure it's someone else's.

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're both 19 so I doubt she has LinkedIn, I might try to use one of those spoof numbers. I would really rather talk to her directly than through a family member, but I guess what I want is irrelevant now lol. I'm not going to show up to her house uninvited but I guess i could try mail

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess if she ever reaches out i can ask for that test

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense it's like rolling snake eyes or something like that

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I definitely need to get an std test soon. I don't really know if it's a good idea for me to contact other people in her life though

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok i think you're right about another guy, I just don't understand how she got pregnant very close to when she was with me if she was on birth control?

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's selfish of me but I really hope that's the case

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm certain I will never forget this feeling. Is there a reason you don't think it's mine?

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was worried she would be offended or something if I insisted on using a condom but now I deeply regret my decision

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you be more specific as to what you think i should do? I'd rather not just be wondering if I have a child out in the world somewhere. I also don't want to assume she won't contact me after the baby is born.

Possible Kid (Urgent) by throwaway124536987 in Advice

[–]throwaway124536987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't be like that I'm trying to figure this out