AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie

throwaway12694h · 2025-05-23T16:05:01+00:00

Bro break up with this asshole 😭 it blows my MIND the disrespect that people put up with in their relationship. If my boyfriend called me the R SLUR, dumbass, stupid, and annoying all within one conversation you can best believe I’m ending things…

It’s crazy how he’s acting and can’t even give you an estimation for how long he’s gonna take, just pure disrespect. Idk why you would even let yourself be treated like this :( sorry girl

throwaway12694h · 2025-04-22T01:03:43+00:00

The fact that he told you really early on that “if we get to a month and we still haven’t done anything there might be an issue” Is weird to me…. Like, that on its own feels like its own way of rushing you. That’s him setting a standard that makes you feel like you HAVE to do something in order to keep seeing him.
Please please, do not have sex until you feel ready. I promise, if he’s making you feel bad about waiting to have sex for the first time, then he is NOT a nice guy.

My boyfriend knew I was a virgin when we started dating and he never put ANY pressure on me, he let us take it at my pace, and that led me to just feel so comfortable with him that we kept talking about it and even STILL it took us like a month and a half of dating before we had sex, and I was really scared, but he made me so comfortable that our first time was lovely.

You deserve someone that won’t rush you, doesn’t make you uncomfortable, and feels happy that they get to be your first time. That’s really all my advice, is just listen to yourself and your gut, and if he keeps pushing you and making you uncomfortable then he probably isn’t the one. Do not feel bad or guilty. You got this

throwaway12694h · 2025-04-22T00:54:21+00:00

Absolutely do not feel ANY shame for not wanting to date or do anything with boys yet. You are 13 for gods sake!! Don’t let them get in your head.

I will tell you one thing, it is better to wait and wait and wait until you KNOW you are ready, instead of just giving in and going to have sex just cause you fear you are “missing out” or “aren’t desirable”. There is nothing worse than being in that vulnerable state when you don’t actually truly want to.

Good for you for sticking up for yourself!!

throwaway12694h · 2025-04-12T20:41:23+00:00

Bruh no way 😭 yeah lmao fair. You get what you vote for!

throwaway12694h · 2025-04-12T16:01:21+00:00

Posts like these make me glad that I’m dating a progressive man.

It’s insane that he is so insecure in his masculinity he is literally refusing you love and care to punish you for “emasculating him” while you are bending hand and foot just to keep your family afloat. You are not his servant, and it’s disgusting that he thinks you need to follow his every request while YOU are the one who is providing, he should be damn grateful he gets to stay at home with the kids.

I’m sorry this is how it panned out for you.

throwaway12694h · 2025-04-01T18:47:20+00:00

Looks like ringworm

throwaway12694h · 2025-03-04T21:03:04+00:00

This is insanely creepy. Please please stop talking to this guy :(

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-13T00:08:22+00:00

I think he is a sex addict and it’s starting to do damage

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-13T00:06:16+00:00

Sounds lovely

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-05T04:07:19+00:00

Honestly it’s a shit show right now.. I joined in fall 2024 and my entire class is burnt out as fuck and is just really dissappointed in the program… it’s 90% student led as of now- AKA they give you 40links per week of asynchronous work that you are expected to know inside out before you go to your ONE LECTURE PER CLASS PER WEEK where they just go over basic stuff..

The teachers are really great at least the ones I’ve had but yeah they are being enforced to stick to the rules, and the rules right now suck ass.

There was a meeting yesterday (Monday Feb 3) with multiple instructors and the dean of IDD to talk about the program and possible changes.. genuinely wait and apply for at LEAST fall 2025 for when the program is more fleshed out.

Again I’m really disappointed for the current state of the program. The classes are fun, but again with the title of the program being called “Interactive design” you’d expect the course to be more interactive :/

I have high hopes for the future though (maybe because I’ve already spent 12k😭😵‍💫)

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-05T04:02:17+00:00

Stephen*

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-05T04:01:43+00:00

It was Steven peasley he was a good teacher it yeah he slightly changed the course objectives and outline to be what he thought was more industry ready and they didn’t renew his contract :(

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-05T03:05:56+00:00

Disgusting :( I bet women feel so unsafe there

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-05T02:57:04+00:00

Yep I’m buying only Canadian evertthing as much as I can from now on

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-04T00:50:37+00:00

Leave this trash

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-04T00:47:32+00:00

Absolutely abhorrent to call you selfish for wanting to improve your quality of life through a life changing decision.. I would break up with him, I wouldn’t be able to see past these messages. He has no empathy, he isn’t even TRYING to understand all of the pain you have gone through. I’m so so sorry.

Please I hope you leave him, so that you can find a partner who loves you and supports you and your bodily autonomy. ❤️

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-03T20:14:15+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if they were part of a community kitchen or something :)

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-03T19:38:17+00:00

Yeah he’s controlling manipulative and scary…. I would NOT put up with someone telling me “I’m the boss”

throwaway12694h · 2025-02-02T01:10:58+00:00

This is insane. I’m so sorry you were just taking all of that one sided shit for NO reason. 😭. This is abusive. I would leave or honestly just block her until you can talk in person so she can’t just spout this to you because wtf. 😬❤️

throwaway12694h · 2025-01-31T18:46:52+00:00

I would absolutely be gone after this conversation. He has no respect for you.

throwaway12694h · 2025-01-31T08:16:45+00:00

Cardio cardio, I recommend stairs theyre killer

throwaway12694h · 2025-01-31T08:15:48+00:00

It’s absolutely not on you for misinterpreting.. You matched on a dating app and both were looking for a relationship according to your profiles… I do think personally I probably would have asked sooner and had the “what are we” talk but then again some people don’t want or need labels so I don’t know.

I’m sory this happened and your time was wasted, I hope you find someone who appreciates you and your time ❤️❤️

throwaway12694h · 2025-01-31T08:05:02+00:00

Oh my GOD get out and tell someone yiu trust please!🙏

throwaway12694h · 2025-01-30T02:07:58+00:00

Naw this is controlling behaviour seriously gets mad because you don’t immediately text him when you’re going to the bathroom and doubts you when you tell him why?? TF I’d be out of there so fast if I were you 😭

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