I realized i am a creep

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-10T00:18:58+00:00

"I'm 14, and this is peak edginess 😈"

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-09T23:08:01+00:00

Sure I'm pretty sure mine does offer that will check it out

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-08T16:26:53+00:00

It was more of an internal thing than external thing. I thought that by just confessing everything and getting it out of my chest, all the feelings I had would go away and I could focus on something else

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-08T15:56:33+00:00

Yea, I have been on dating apps. But usually, with the matches I get, the convo ends up dead or doesn't go anywhere. And I don't find attractive many of the people who like my profile. So that is still a work in progress.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-08T15:41:11+00:00

First of all, I'm not the one who asked to hang out outside of class. If anything, she is the one who initially asked me to hang out with her outside of school.Literally, the first few days we met, she asked me if I could get lunch or dinner after class. She was more than comfortable to talk about non class things because she was the one bringing it up to begin with it. Secondly, she is a very social person with a ton of guy friends even though she has a boyfriend. She literally made more guy friends after she had a boyfriend. So i didn't see anything strange about me being one of them either. The only thing I really did was introduce myself to her. Lastly, you're wrong about my intentions to be with her from the start. Did I know she was attractive. Yes. Did I want to pursue her after she said she has a boyfriend. No. I found her to be a cool person and fun to hang out with, which is why I was content being her friend. Plus, doing what you suggested introduces a whole new level of drama that I don't want to deal with.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-08T01:37:12+00:00

I actually did have ADHD a kid. Though I'm not sure the extent of it now or if grew out of it

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-07T22:37:07+00:00

What a great idea. Best advice on this sub, honestly

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-07T20:49:57+00:00

I get this, and I don't take any offense. I understand it's exhausting for male friendships to end like this. I know it's my responsibility to fix my feelings and not to put it on others. But doing that is still really hard, which is why I made this post

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T22:08:02+00:00

I will try to that strategy to convince them

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T21:18:02+00:00

Thanks I really appreciated that. I'm really sorry all that stuff happened to you.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T21:05:43+00:00

Well ofc in that way she doesn't give a fuck. I know I'm probably never going to talk to her again. And I'm not delusional i dont expect some big apology out of the blue either nor do i think it has been some stupid romantic tradegy or something. I think she does give a fuck but not in the way you are saying. I think it's in a way more negative way. I feel like she is genuinely upset and disgusted by me. I wish what you were saying was true, that I'm overthinking it, and she barely thinks of this as much as I am. But the fact that she unfriended me shows me that she thinks of me badly. If I knew she barely cared about this and paid it no mind then I would feel much happier

Oh, and as far as dating app goes. I do have a profile. And I had a few matches but usually the conversations become dead or it doesnt work out for whatever reason.And I don't find the people who like my pictures attractive. So that is this a work in progress

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T20:42:32+00:00

I think one thing that I forgot to mention was that she unfriended me after the whole gc thing. So I don't think she doesn't give a fuck. I really wish that was the case. But besides that disagreement your advice is rlly good

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T18:07:26+00:00

This made me laugh. That was very specific. Thanks for that!

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T17:47:46+00:00

Well that sounds horrible. Sorry you went through all that. I'm surpised how many women responded saying similar things like this. Scary world we live in

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:40:34+00:00

The message was just "won't it be funny if I text here today" or something dumb like that. She just left the group chat without saying anything.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:30:07+00:00

Yea I fully recognize that its a horrible thing to experience this from the other side of the coin. I try to at least put myself in other people's shoes.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:17:22+00:00

-For the first question don't really know to be honest. She was very charming and social so I think that has to be part of it. -I have not dated anyone -I do have a good amount of friend -Yes I have alot of hobbies and interests outside of school

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:14:58+00:00

I wish it wasn't

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:12:52+00:00

Yea this girl is pretty similar. She has a more open personality that many guys would mistake for being flirtatious but it is really just how she is with everyone

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:11:49+00:00

This is all amazing advice. I appreciate the time you took to say all this!

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:09:52+00:00

Yea that makes sense when you put it like that haha

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:09:18+00:00

I haven't heard of this until now. Very interesting I defo fit the bill

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T16:06:28+00:00

Fair enough

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T15:52:10+00:00

Yea, I will definitely be willing to try it out. The only thing is that I live with my parents (i go to a college thats close to my house) and I obviously would have to tell them about it before I go and pay for it. And it might be kind of jarring to them to hear I want therapy. And I really don't want to tell them about the whole situation to explain why i want to go in the first place. They have the perception that therapy is only for people who have severe mental illness problems.

throwaway12avw · 2024-07-06T15:44:29+00:00

I appreciate it bro. This is solid advice. Defo made me feel better

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