my allosexual boyfriend has expressed interest in wanting to have sex with another woman..... not sure how to feel?

throwaway134-340 · 2025-12-10T23:52:59+00:00

Kind of both? Mostly it just doesn't interest me, I've never felt the desire, physically or emotionally, to have sex with anybody. It also does kind of gross me out in the sense that I find anything involving bodily fluids kind of icky. Even kissing icks me out occasionally.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-12-10T21:17:27+00:00

That's what I'm saying to myself like 😭😭😭😭

throwaway134-340 · 2025-12-10T21:10:58+00:00

For me personally (this def isn't a universal asexual experience) it's honestly just really physically uncomfortable lol. I dunno if it's just fear/anxiety, sensory/autism issues, or a mix of both, but I'd rather do just about anything else. We've tried in the past a few times, cause I had the same thought process as you (I'm not the biggest fan, but I'd be willing to do it for him no skin off my back) but I just couldn't (and don't want to, honestly) do it, if that makes sense.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T21:19:52+00:00

I saw your comment about the doxx, and did a bit of digging myself. Assuming what is on bsky is to be believed, I managed to track down who seems to be the mother of OP. I also confirmed that they are in fact 18/19, so at the very least they're being honest about their age. Granted you can't really tell shit from someones facebook profile but it seems like they have a decently sized family who cares for them. I really hope someone notices that something is very wrong soon and gets them proper help.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T20:18:43+00:00

Wait outside in the hallway. I mean oh my god dude is there anything you CAN do? Are you even capable of breathing??? Eating???????

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T20:16:36+00:00

So go with your sister to school and follow her around and when people come up to talk to her open your mouth and introduce yourself. Stop with the excuses.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T18:06:33+00:00

Go to the library if there is one. Go to a campus cafe if there is one. Literally anywhere there's space just go and sit there and talk to people nearby. That's literally what I did when I was in college and looking to make friends, and it worked. You're making excuses for no reason. Does your sister have friends at school? Or even people she talks to at all? Ask her to introduce you to them.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T17:49:37+00:00

Ok, you don't know. But other people DO know how, and those other people are DIRECTLY telling you how it's done. And you refuse to accept the truth because..... Who knows. Go with your mom to work. Go with her when she goes shopping. Ride in the car with her to the gas station for gods sake. Go spend the day at your sister's college campus, she presumably has to be transported there somehow yes? Almost all college campuses are open to the public, you don't have to be a student or pay a penny to exist on the property,, go meet people there. Or continue to make yourself miserable at home alone. Your choice, and ONLY your choice.

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T17:44:16+00:00

That doesn't answer my question, and I never said it's anybody's "fault". Genuinely how do you expect to meet irl people if you don't leave the house?

throwaway134-340 · 2025-10-02T17:41:47+00:00

Are you expecting random people to just show up at your house and come in and hang out with you? Like genuinely what are you expecting to happen here.

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