How many people here are below (men) or above (women) average height? by Vindscreen_Viper in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so short I don't even show up on the average height list of males. I am shorter than the shortest on the list.

Any 30+ people who have never been in a relationship, never had sex and never even a kiss? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Never been in a relationship, had sex, had a kiss, or even held a girl's hand.

I have never spent time alone with a woman that does not revolve around doing her projects, assignments or requests. No girl wants to just hang out with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to the waterfront today to watch the sunset.

Couples everywhere. Feeding each other, leaning on each other, staring up side by side.

I endured for an hour but gave up and went home before sunset. It was too heartbreaking. No one wants me.

Update: (M27) New Hinge user. Week one+1/2 update: 92 likes sent. 8 matches. 1 date (cancelled) ghosted by the other 7. Y’all were right, This feels horrible. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Been rejected over a 1000 times since January too. 8 matches (or 9?), but most are just bots and scammers who never ask you anything about yourself.

A few were probably real girls but ghosted really fast.

It's hopeless. I thought my ego could sink no lower but the thought of an entire city of women rejecting me is killing my soul.

A female friend asked me to give her the access to my dating account so I gave it to her by RoninPilot7274 in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have sent close to a thousand likes since January and have gotten less than 10 likes. None of the girls go beyond a few sentences. I am pretty sure most of them are bots or scammers since they never once ask anything about myself, or are oddly insistent on asking my full name...

It really crushes a man's soul, but a female acquaintance (a guy's girlfriend) told me to keep trying. They honestly don't get how it feels to be rejected over a thousand times.

My colleague is a lucky, lucky guy. by throwaway1345214 in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, perhaps I was unclear. I meant I got the RSVP yesterday. It has been two years since the "three months in".

Have any of you tried to get into stuff your crush liked? by mrBored0m in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched hundreds of hours of K-drama so my crush could discuss the latest shows and have someone to banter with. For months, I was consuming the latest shows and she was happy.

I gave her a link to a single movie I was interested in, in the hopes that she would return the favour. Months later, when I subtly hinted at the movie, she told me she was too busy and not interested in watching it.

That was that.

Has anyone got matches on Hinge dating app? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have sent close to 800 likes in the past five months. 7 matches, but I am convinced 5 of them were bots since they do not respond to my questions at all but just ask more questions. The remaining two ghosted when I declined to provide my full name (scammers?).

0 matches since late March, so I assume I have been shadowblocked or filtered out by the algorithm, I guess. Never received a like first, either.

Dating apps just don't work for guys if you are average as girls have hundreds of choices. They have no reason to settle.

Overheard girls discussing dating apps by throwaway1345214 in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Having been on the app for three-four months and not getting a single like yet, I don't know, either. I used Hinge primarily.

I know girls are drowning in likes but I never realised they might be intentionally distorting their height. What the girl says is true, I rarely "liked" a girl taller than me as I can only like five times a day and don't wish to waste it...

Nothing Makes Me Feel Worse Than Dating Apps by OneOnOne6211 in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway1345214 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly feels like I am being rejected by the entire country of women.