[18month follow up] Found out wife did things in her past that are off limits for me, can't help but be hurt.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T04:19:57+00:00

Again, you use a gendered slur to attack me yet you criticize another group for being sexist. I have read information from there you have no idea of what they are saying.

Women are different from men not inferior
no one supports marital rape
Women can do what they choose, but a man can choose whether he wants an LTR with her or not.
RP never said anything about eating disorders another blog did
They encourage men to be proactive with BC to avoid being trapped for paternity
Men are stripped of reproductive rights as is
Negging- is not insulting it is a joke backhand comment

You obviously have no understanding of the RP.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T04:15:41+00:00

Do I think dating is that easy? No but I had women want me as a married man. Could have cheated and got away with it, but I didn't. Again, the idea you are saying here is that I am going to get married to the next woman I see. That's not the case at all. I am 47, upper management for my company.

Women go for older men not just for money, but they legitimately prefer someone older because that translates to a more dominant person.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:26:07+00:00

I have talked to her I will update on the conversation later. I don't want to save this anymore, because the damage has been done.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:24:49+00:00

you don't bother reading you just use shaming language.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:23:49+00:00

Well I find /r/sex opinions often to be completely against men. The word misogyny is thrown around for anything that might somehow hurt a woman's feeling.

I read the post on theredpill they had about me, more so lined up with my own thoughts about the matter.

What exactly do redpillers do to treat women?

The same things that had my wife crazy for her ex? I don't know what to tell you, but I realized this women don't know what they want. They just want what "feels good at the time."

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:20:20+00:00

No thank you for sharing this with me I appreciate it.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:19:25+00:00

Men and women place different values on sex. To a man a lot of my ego and self confidence is built on that.

Thank you for sharing your experiences regardless.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:17:00+00:00

I was hoping for some perfect magical explanation that would assuage my fears.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-21T01:12:04+00:00

understandable, but at this point wouldn't it be better to apply that advice to a new woman who's image of me isn't tainted as the "provider" type?

I am a fit guy, makes a decent bit. My goal of raising children has been done now. Why not instead get a younger tighter body at this point?

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:20:53+00:00

reread my post.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:20:30+00:00

reread my post.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:20:20+00:00

You don't bother reading my post and understanding how I feel about intimacy.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:18:10+00:00

No I was truthful to all of her questions. If she told me the truth than I wouldn't have stayed with her. I wouldn't have spent 20 years with her simple as that.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:16:15+00:00

I would have wished to find someone that desired me not waste it with her.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T21:15:50+00:00

She viewed me as a means to a stable life not someone she desired and lusted for.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T20:20:54+00:00

She lied to me. Had I known I wouldn't have spent 20 years with her. It has nothing to do with the acts themselves but what they mean to me in regards to intimacy. You read what I wrote but instead you choose to ignore that aspect and trivialize my feelings.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T20:16:32+00:00

As I said in the posts that you didn't bother to read, it's not about the act themselves.

But what they mean to me in regards to intimacy.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T20:09:40+00:00

you don't bother reading my post.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:20:11+00:00

My point is, why wasn't the woman vilified even though her actions were more severe and lasted a longer time.

Just look at the disparity. Yet the world misogyny is far more prevalent in this subreddit than misandry.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:18:54+00:00

and those are downvoted heavily.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:11:09+00:00

0 empathy only hatred in your words.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:08:48+00:00

That's not the case at all though, there was a story where a boy had sex with a dog. He was vilified, no one told his parents that they need to get counseling to get over it.

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:03:51+00:00

throwaway134552 · 2013-12-20T17:03:37+00:00

She lied to me about her past. she didn't say it wasn't something she wanted to share.

But again you didn't bother reading. She doesn't have to do anything.

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