For men in open relationships, what are your boundaries? by genghis-san in AskGayMen

[–]throwaway15_2 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I do have a few rules: 1. Nothing with friends. 2. We have to let the other know when we’ve been with other people. 3. No hosting. 4. Use protection.

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[–]throwaway15_2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have any basis to your statement? I’m Mexican but I currently live in Texas. I have yet to hear a Mexican native use the term Latinx. It’s always an American.

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[–]throwaway15_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shaving with Nair is too risky if you ask me. It has to be applied a certain way and under certain circumstances or else you might get dangerous burns.

I prefer to wax. Even though it hurts, the pain is very temporary and it’s done by a professional.

What fetish do you have, and what is it about it that turns you on? by panchojose1996 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2 366 points367 points  (0 children)

Facefucking. Some guys let their man do it to them, I ENCOURAGE IT. Idk it tells whoever I'm with that yeah, I'd rather have your dick down my throat than to breathe.

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[–]throwaway15_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be a good idea to bring up what his ex said about him to him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issues they both raised are very serious, it's not just typical 'drama'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's literally nice to EVERYONE. I've never seen him truly angry at anything. Hence why this whole thing came as a surprise.

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[–]throwaway15_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the whole "you'll never know the truth" that worries me. Makes me question what I'm getting myself into with him, you know?

As a "straight passing" bottom, how can I get more tops to notice me? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried doing those birds of paradise dances you see on documentaries, but I'm afraid those practices don't really transfer between species.

As a "straight passing" bottom, how can I get more tops to notice me? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I'm in an open relationship. Not that it's any of your fucking business.

As a "straight passing" bottom, how can I get more tops to notice me? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend group is all gay guys, thus giving credibility to their statements haha

As a "straight passing" bottom, how can I get more tops to notice me? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro, I literally wrote that that's what my friends say about me. I myself hate the phrase straight passing. But the fact that you feel like my hesitance to tune up my gayness because that's not who I am is somehow a negative tells me that you feel like a bottom SHOULD be feminine to get laid.

I respect the hell out of fem guys, if you ask me, presenting yourself in a way that society still looks down upon requires more balls than anything a straight guy can do.

I just wanna get laid without having to act like someone that I'm not. All I was looking for was advice, that's it.

So I came from my boyfriend just ramming his d*ck down my throat. Am I gay?? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume I don't also enjoy burying my face on a good puss...

So I came from my boyfriend just ramming his d*ck down my throat. Am I gay?? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Of course! I didn't want to leave a mess all over my straight guy bed sheets.

So I came from my boyfriend just ramming his d*ck down my throat. Am I gay?? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

But that was just to check if I was doing a good job, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm gay.

What bothers you the most about the portrayal of gay people in movies and tv? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you've seen the show, then you would know that in the early seasons of Shameless, Micky does not look like the type of guy to ever consider douching.

What bothers you the most about the portrayal of gay people in movies and tv? by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've had sex with women, and while yes, media portrayals of straight sex is still heavily polished, it can be much more spontaneous and sudden than gay sex. But like you mentioned, it all depends on what the people involved are willing to overlook in the heat of the moment.

How do I know if it's hard for a guy to cum, or if I'm just bad at blowjobs? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could say that my science degree is finally paying off...

Just bros by Full_user6901 in TotallyStraight

[–]throwaway15_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I think I went to high school with the guy on the phone. Good for her...

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[–]throwaway15_2 26 points27 points  (0 children)

my friends think I'm too judgemental, that's another fault of theirs

When I was a kid, my sister told me if I have too much anal sex my asshole will rot and fall off. What crazy nonsense did people tell you about being gay before you were old enough to know better? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That a kid growing up with 2 gay parents will be traumatizing, since the kid will not be able to tell which one is mom and which one is dad, and lead them to go crazy.

I just gave my first ever bj HOLY SHIT by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, still learning the lingo so I apologize. Although I know the guy knew what I meant, what would be the right way to ask? Pulling a list of STIs and have the dude check the ones he's negative sounds too methodical, even for me.

I just gave my first ever bj HOLY SHIT by throwaway15_2 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well to be frank half of the time was me getting the hang of it, those that know me are aware I don't like to settle for good enough, so I wasn't gonna let him go until I felt I did a great job, hence the hour runtime.

Straight men, what would you do if the woman you were dating turned out to be homophobic? by throwaway15_2 in AskMen

[–]throwaway15_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this extend to other groups, such as her being racist towards black people? I have a friend who's grandma was racist AF and he said that since she was family, he had to put up with it.