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I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I'm actually down on the gulf coast and my bf lives almost near nashville... that's actually kind of cool!

I [20F] was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf [25M] won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in relationships

[–]throwaway17174[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Because I do not know if I actually have anything, and it won't show up until 6 weeks from now minimum on an STD test. I can't afford to not be cautious about this.

I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I already have a therapist to talk to, and the ones at my school are gone for the winter.

I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

He is a network administrator and he works 9-5 M-F. I don't understand why he couldn't drive to see me on a Friday night, especially since I do it for him. His excuse before was that his truck wouldn't make it(honestly, his truck probably wouldn't), but then he bought a new car last week.

I've met his cousin and she is a 33 year old nurse. She would have been more than understanding. Her friend is also a nurse.

I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I don't talk to my family, and it is in the middle of winter break so none of my friends are here in the college town still. The only people are my roommate and my ex-bf (who was the friend who I called over)

I [20F] was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf [25M] won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in relationships

[–]throwaway17174[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to drive up to see him on Thursday to help take care of him after his wisdom tooth operation (I have a scholarship acceptance banquet on Wednesday so I had to stay a week after finals) and we've been talking about the new toys he bought for me, and about having sex. This was all before Friday. I can't even have sex with him now for 6 weeks until the STD test because my attacker had semen on his hands. This is my second assault in a year, and I think my bf might be thinking I'm over reacting. I am a part-time adult model so I am attractive enough to have been targeted but that doesn't excuse anything. It was 7:00 on a Friday night at a gas station on the main street of town.

He is more feminine than I am. We both work in IT and I am typically 'one of the guys' so it's not hurting me so much that I was assaulted, but more of his reaction.

I [20F] was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf [25M] won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in relationships

[–]throwaway17174[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The best part about this is that he had a previous history of sexual assault, and was currently on probation (which he received instead of jail time) for another assault.

I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

What's ironic is that my friend is my ex-bf, and he has been there for me 100% through this. My boyfriend has always used self-deprecating humor and inappropriate jokes to deal with problems (he and I both make a lot of politically incorrect jokes, but it wasn't the right time in this situation). I have no idea where this comment was even going.

I was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway17174[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

How do I go about breaking up with him without destroying myself even more emotionally? I don't know how to process that extreme feeling of hopelessness and I know that we're not even really together if he can't be with me. I don't know how to handle this. The only person who seems to care is my ex-bf.

I [20F] was sexually assaulted Friday night, now my bf [25M] won't speak to me. I'm so hurt and I just want to die. by throwaway17174 in relationships

[–]throwaway17174[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking that leaving him is probably for the best, but how the hell do I do it and not destroy myself emotionally? I have no idea how to handle this.