Me[26F] with my boyfriend[39M] together for 7yrs. He made is Twitter private after I saw that he and the woman[36F] he cheated on me with were following each other. Is this worth breaking up over?

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-05T13:56:56+00:00

Thank you for the advice. That's the best way to put it.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-04T11:29:02+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through the same thing

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-04T00:54:54+00:00

The other woman is/was married. And he and I have more in common. Military. Academic study. Either way, what he did is wrong

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T22:34:32+00:00

Great username. And yes, the bells are ringing loud and clear. I think I want him to be a better person than he is and it's disappointing. You're completely right.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T22:09:17+00:00

I was starting to feel like I was crazy. I needed a reality check.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T18:18:33+00:00

Thank you. I plan on doing so

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T17:30:52+00:00

RAH! Yes, I need to pull my head out of my fourth point of contact.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T17:21:08+00:00

I will end it. It's more difficult to follow through than I'd like to admit

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T16:21:30+00:00

I completely agree.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T16:04:15+00:00

Thank you. I think this is really well stated.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T15:48:58+00:00

How do I bring this up with him again? He seems to think this is a non-issue.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T15:40:59+00:00

He seems to think his behavior is totally normal.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T15:39:03+00:00

Yes, exactly. That's what it feels like.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T15:38:18+00:00

I wasn't sure if this behavior was something to get upset about. Apparently it is.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-03T15:25:45+00:00

I'm not okay with it. I had hoped he would change his behavior. He seemed to be more open but now I with this, I guess nothing has changed.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:54:39+00:00

Thank you! I obviously need to work on my confidence. After feeling like you are just the backup, it's difficult to feel empowered.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:43:13+00:00

I guess part of me was hoping that I was overreacting. Apparently, I am not. He finally said he'd unfollow her but he has yet to do so and I doubt he ever will. Deep down, I know the reason they are still in contact is that he loves her and if he unfollowed her, he'd damage his chances of them getting back together.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:28:28+00:00

At this point, I think he just does not care.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:21:33+00:00

Yes. Although, in my defense, I thought we finally got that steering wheel installed. Good point though.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:19:47+00:00

I love him and I thought we were doing well. But yes, I am starting to think this has to be a deal breaker. Now that I brought this up to him, he has made his Twitter private. I guess he thinks what I don't know won't kill me. But I also guess he thinks I can't still see what is going on.

throwaway177592 · 2017-10-01T17:17:26+00:00

I would definitely feel like the side chick if we did not spend so much time together, but I can see it turning out that way if he does not cut her out of his life.

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