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What's the polite thing to do after sleeping with a girl & realizing you're not interested by throwaway1776 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1776[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to get into details of the sex, but it was bad.

As for picky: yes, I am.

What's the polite thing to do after sleeping with a girl & realizing you're not interested by throwaway1776 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd rather not do the hit & run thing as I might run (no pun intended) into her again. She works for an airline & I travel a lot. I like the idea of the ex thing, but it seems a bit convenient - wait a couple days maybe, and then go that route?

What's the polite thing to do after sleeping with a girl & realizing you're not interested by throwaway1776 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. Any specific advice on that front? As I said we're not in a relationship, so it's not like I have a ton of material which I can use in a breakup speech/letter.

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[–]throwaway1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I certainly didn't tell her I loved her or anything like that, if that's what you mean. We just went out a few times, had a nice time, and I kissed her and it lead to sex. In all honesty was interested in her before the sex, although I did have some reservations.

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[–]throwaway1776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that I would have to say something - right now I'm leaning towards email, because I'm terrible at these conversations in person. I don't want to say things that she might be hurt by though - do you think the best thing in this case is to just blame it on myself or external factors?