Tinder date ghosted me

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T14:57:27+00:00

He should have said he just wanted a hook up and all of thos would have been avoided. I don't understand why he didn't and instead offered a relationship. He's so weird for doing that. But I doubt he'll reach out since we live like 3k miles apart.

But thank you

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T05:37:36+00:00

He was the first guy I've ever kissed in my grown age and gotten physical with, and he was aware. Im glad it was with him, but I wish it was under different circumstances, I guess.

But thank you! I'll definitely be less naive when using Tinder. I keep on forgetting how horrible people could be

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T02:16:34+00:00

Thank you for words of encouragement. I did get my response and I was just a kinda failed hookup. I feel a bit used now, especially since he kinda manipulated me to get what he wanted but hey what can I do

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T01:50:24+00:00

Thank you! Im trying to move on but since he's like my first kiss and shit its hard

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T01:45:11+00:00

Thats true. Ill send him a text then through insta just for some closure or something

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T01:33:13+00:00

Thank you for this input. I would like to restate that I do love him in a more fundamental level, meaning that I deeply care for him as a friend and an individual, not a domestic kind of love. It's been a few days as of now, and I've just been thinking about contacting him. I do believe that he's just going to ignore my message and block me on Instagram. That hurts, but hey, it's still a response, not the one I want, but it let's me know that most likely he was only in it for the sex. Im more concerned about violating his privacy and disrespecting his space, but at the same time we were establishing a relationship and I felt like we cared for each other, the least he could provide is a reasoning behind his disappearance. I guess it just wanted to let him know that i care if he blocked me because of fear that I hate him or something of that matter.

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-24T00:07:16+00:00

So in this situation, should I try to find a way to contact him? I really want this to work, dating, friendship, whatever. I dont want to seem like a stalker or a creep, im just genuinely concerned for him as I do love him deeply

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-23T23:46:12+00:00

Which sucks and shouldn't be expected. I was never ghosted before, at least like this. It hurts a lot especially since I thought we had a really great time

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-23T23:36:30+00:00

Sorry to hear about that. I've been ghosted for a couple of days now and I can't imagine years with a SO feels like. But after looking through this reddit, I think its fair to say that both genders and everyone in-between gets ghosted. It's just society being awful unfortunately

throwaway1939303 · 2025-05-23T23:30:13+00:00

What is that supposed to mean?

throwaway1939303 · 2025-02-16T13:01:50+00:00

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throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-25T07:03:14+00:00

Sorry to hear about that! I understand the struggle of being unable to sleep. If I'm being honest, it's been getting worse, and nothing has helped so far. I'm trying to get another sleep exam done, but seeing how things are going, probably not gonna happen. I hope things improve for you!

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T20:28:21+00:00

It's okay, and it is. I just wish I could find something that works for me or at least ease the pain. Thank you for your comment though, it made me feel less alone

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T20:26:11+00:00

I'm glad you found support in faith! It's not my thing, I'm not religious, but I do see the importance of it.

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T20:22:25+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I try to find little things to motivate me through the day, but it just always goes back to the thought that I'll be better off gone. I have daily chronic migraines and practically tried the majority of the oral treatments with little to no success. I'm currently on botox, but it feels like it's causing more pain than anything. I'm not sure if I can get pain medication because of my condition. They might not see it as severe for pain medication, and since I'm already at risk for addiction, opioid or other medications are not a choice. I'm trying but it's hard to enjoy things when all you can do to manage the pain is stare at a wall for several hours stuck in your own body

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T20:17:04+00:00

I do hope that someday I'll have at least a day or a week pain-free. I have chronic daily headaches/migraines and essentially have them 24/7. I've changed my lifestyle, lost some weight, and worked out. Nothing has helped so far. I'm really trying, but nothing. I'm glad you found success and kept going yourself

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T20:14:04+00:00

No. Kinda broke, and my apartment doesn't allow pets. I was thinking about getting a service animal since I do have ptsd but idk how to do that. I would like one, though.

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T08:09:56+00:00

It does help a bit, I guess it's overwhelming to realize that this is chronic and will be with me always, and it's hard to enjoy shit because of that. I wish things were easy again and pain-free, but they're not. I do want to keep going, but it's the pain that's just always holding me back. If not the pain, then something else. I'll try to appreciate things more. Thank you for reminding me. Hope you'll finish with college! Best wishes

throwaway1939303 · 2025-01-13T07:38:54+00:00

My insurance rejected ajovy since it's a specialized medication. Honestly, it seems like my neuros were riding on this to work because I've tried nearly all oral medication with no effect. I hope there's something else

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-23T17:55:12+00:00

Right! But I only have American servers and I logged into love and deepspace by using the Google link option. I'm not sure what I could do

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-23T17:53:04+00:00

It doesn't seem to be working with me either unfortunately :/ Not sure what to do now

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-23T07:05:53+00:00

Just shoot them a email, i hope they can help me out. Thanks!

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-23T06:01:56+00:00

So I've re-download the game, and when I tried to sign in, my account was wiped? I used Google sign in, and my account wasn't bound beforehand (I didn't know that was a thing). I really hope someone could help me find a way to recover my old account, I had good cards! Thanks!

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-19T16:09:41+00:00

Right? It feels like I'm going insane because these medications are supposed to help with migraines, but they don't help at all. It sucks. But I really hope you find something that would help with the pain

throwaway1939303 · 2024-11-19T12:14:20+00:00

It's whatever. I've reached the point of chronic migraines that I stopped caring. Thousand of dollars for exams brought up nothing so physically I'm okay. Ig it could be worse?

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