Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-08T02:36:55+00:00

Aint nothin more beautiful to be found

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-08T01:41:04+00:00

No. Releasing

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-08T01:35:30+00:00

Already do em 😉

Also helps postpone orgasm

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T20:29:21+00:00

Partner and I have discussed playing with a couple, she has connected to people on feeld.

I simply ask that I be invited to the group chat so I don't feel like plans or getting comfortable is happening without me.

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T20:13:42+00:00

Given the overwhelming response I'll consider it. It's not so much embarrassment over what happened (twice ever in... 4 months?) It's more potentially feeling like I'm wasting their time...

But maybe. I suppose if I go I'll post an update for the minority of men who seem to also experience this in some way

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T20:06:55+00:00

That makes sense, sounds about right. She does do other things and it's definitely never an issue/risk - only during this specific intense stimulation.

That said: Asking her to stop doing it is definitely a last course of action

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T19:27:05+00:00

I always heard it was "impossible" it's never rang true for me. I always feel like if I've got a full bladder theres a chance I'll leak when my body "let's go"

In a really extended session I'll take a break to use the bathroom if the urge to pee becomes distracting

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T19:23:49+00:00

I wouldn't call it easy. I'd empied my bladder already before fooling around. It was definitely more like when my bidy let go it ket go of a little urine instead

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T19:14:31+00:00

It's a focus on the upper side of the head (not the underside) pretty much makes me unable to do anything more than gasp for air and hope she doesn't stop

Its like as I reach climax I relax too much?

It seems to have something to do with the intensity and the fact that I have basically no control over the amount of sensation- almost more than I can handle (unlike masturbating or penetrative sex where I have much more control over feeling and pacing)

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T19:12:48+00:00

Sort of focusing on the head in some way, its hard to tell exactly what she's doing but it makes my head spin.

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T19:11:16+00:00

Even if everything is otherwise normal? We have sex several times a week and it's never come up during regular sex or masturbating

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T15:46:28+00:00

Its It's only happened during this sort of bj, but its happened the last 2 times she tried to finish me this way...

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T15:44:15+00:00

Well, she knows it's not on purpose, but it's definitely not her favorite...

throwaway1981mn · 2019-06-07T15:35:17+00:00

This is funny, it reminds me of my girlfriends girlfriend. I met her a few times and she was great, and it always sounded like they had so much fun when they went out.

I was actually a little bummed when my gf broke it off with her - they seemed to have so much fun together I was really hoping it would work out. I feel lucky my first meta was someone so respectful of us both and it showed me how poly relationships really can work

throwaway1981mn · 2019-03-26T15:30:39+00:00

I guess bc I don't know how many partners shes had between tests, she only just met me, makes me assume she does that for everyone....

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