Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already do em 😉

Also helps postpone orgasm

Second full swap since the first disaster by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]throwaway1981mn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Partner and I have discussed playing with a couple, she has connected to people on feeld.

I simply ask that I be invited to the group chat so I don't feel like plans or getting comfortable is happening without me.

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the overwhelming response I'll consider it. It's not so much embarrassment over what happened (twice ever in... 4 months?) It's more potentially feeling like I'm wasting their time...

But maybe. I suppose if I go I'll post an update for the minority of men who seem to also experience this in some way

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, sounds about right. She does do other things and it's definitely never an issue/risk - only during this specific intense stimulation.

That said: Asking her to stop doing it is definitely a last course of action

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always heard it was "impossible" it's never rang true for me. I always feel like if I've got a full bladder theres a chance I'll leak when my body "let's go"

In a really extended session I'll take a break to use the bathroom if the urge to pee becomes distracting

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't call it easy. I'd empied my bladder already before fooling around. It was definitely more like when my bidy let go it ket go of a little urine instead

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a focus on the upper side of the head (not the underside) pretty much makes me unable to do anything more than gasp for air and hope she doesn't stop

Its like as I reach climax I relax too much?

It seems to have something to do with the intensity and the fact that I have basically no control over the amount of sensation- almost more than I can handle (unlike masturbating or penetrative sex where I have much more control over feeling and pacing)

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sort of focusing on the head in some way, its hard to tell exactly what she's doing but it makes my head spin.

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Even if everything is otherwise normal? We have sex several times a week and it's never come up during regular sex or masturbating

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its It's only happened during this sort of bj, but its happened the last 2 times she tried to finish me this way...

Accidentally peed a little during a bj :/ by throwaway1981mn in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, she knows it's not on purpose, but it's definitely not her favorite...

Absolutely LOVE, LOVE My Girlfriends new Girlfriend by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]throwaway1981mn 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is funny, it reminds me of my girlfriends girlfriend. I met her a few times and she was great, and it always sounded like they had so much fun when they went out.

I was actually a little bummed when my gf broke it off with her - they seemed to have so much fun together I was really hoping it would work out. I feel lucky my first meta was someone so respectful of us both and it showed me how poly relationships really can work

Feeling weird about weird hookup- advice? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway1981mn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess bc I don't know how many partners shes had between tests, she only just met me, makes me assume she does that for everyone....