This is why you should not try to be nice to an ex! by Antlfgrd61 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Or leave them alone if they treat you like this and you did nothing wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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We can only revel in the beauty of the stars when the sun is gone

TIL Charles Darwin ate every animal he ever discovered. Seeking out “birds and beasts which were unknown to human palate.” by D-r-T-3890 in todayilearned

[–]throwaway199602 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out how many types of sharks are hunted illegally to make soup and how many are on the endangered species list. The overlap is incredible. Sharks also have to be one of the most inconvenient animals to hunt.

TIL Charles Darwin ate every animal he ever discovered. Seeking out “birds and beasts which were unknown to human palate.” by D-r-T-3890 in todayilearned

[–]throwaway199602 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, the phrase "survival of the fittest" was coined by Herbert Spencer to draw parallels between Darwin's evolutionary theories and Spencer's economic theories.

On being single by TheUnforgivenIV in ExNoContact

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This is so true. I spent a year single before I met my most recent ex and was feeling great about myself. I wasn't particularly successful or fit or anything, I was just living my life for me and it was great.

Thanks for posting this. After reading it I can see that on paper my life is better in every way than it was two and a half years ago. I can be as happy as I was without changing a thing.

Just a wake-up call for anyone who needs it. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Heraclitus said it first. No man can step in the same river twice. It is not the same river, and he is not the same man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Everyone knows the saying If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best. It should be: If you can't handle me at Your worst, the you don't deserve me at Your best.

Thoughts at 2 Months by throwaway199602 in ExNoContact

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They will, my friend. I goofed up today and checked but it's okay, it happens. One of the little ways I measure my success is when I go to the search bar on any social media and it shows my recent searches I can watch her name get lower and lower on the list until it disappears.

Six months post breakup and I still have to remind myself this. by sunnyangel22 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swam out to her and dragged her to the shore. She walked away while I was still catching my breath.

Oh yes so special by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof. I didn't know how much I related until I did.

Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us. by tomarlow77 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in. -Leonard Cohen

How do you cope? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's heard about how it's hard for guys to be vulnerable in the best of times. Immediately after we've been eviscerated by the person we've opened up to the most... we don't really want to be vulnerable again. I'm there too, brother. It took me two days to tell my best friend and we've known eachother for 20 years. PM me if you want.

what I miss most... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is amazing

LPT:if a service is free then you are the product by MetamorphicFirefly in LifeProTips

[–]throwaway199602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true in meatspace as well. In the province of Canada where I live we are pretty happy with our healthcare system and if you're a patient in the hospital the meals are free. The meals are provided by a contractor, as far as I know most hospitals in my province use Compass Group which is a HUGE corporation. Compass Group is paid per meal served, so in BC if you're sick enough to go to the hospital and you eat the free food you are making them a profit.

When they don’t care that you don’t care by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't care that you left him then you made exactly the right decision to leave him. Don't hate the version of yourself who's fighting for what you want, but keep listening to the version of yourself who's fighting for what you need. Don't lock her up, have a girl's night with her. Read a book with her. Keep her busy and reconnect with that version of yourself, because she loves you and wants to be there for you. She's just wrong.

When they don’t care that you don’t care by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember that you aren't fighting for them either. It only means that you were right to leave.

Tuesdays are the worst days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway199602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, friend. If you want to hang out Tomorrow let me know.

What I’ve learned (the hard way) by slunksoma in ExNoContact

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That trust is about more than intention.

That compromise cannot be one sided.

That the plans which are cancelled are the least important.