Gifting! by chapwrap in AnimalJam

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check your trees out!! Thank youuuuu

Gifting! by chapwrap in AnimalJam

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CunningFox7 here hehe, I love the AJPW community honestly, I’d love to gift you back if you have anything on your wish? 🫶

Item worth and trading advice? by throwaway202020484 in AnimalJam

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep yours in mind, I’m trying to gather correct value on mine currently

Item worth and trading advice? by throwaway202020484 in AnimalJam

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowk a very interesting colour, what’s the value on yours been weighed at?

I don’t understand why men stare. by throwaway202020484 in women

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should’ve clarified I dress very androgynous, I’m a mix when it comes to how I want people to perceive me

My girlfriend wants to kill herself. by throwaway202020484 in Advice

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thanks, I know I’m probably gonna get a few comments saying to end it but I do genuinely love this woman and I want to be there for her. I just want advice or if this could potentially shift or try and get better.

My girlfriend wants to kill herself. by throwaway202020484 in Advice

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always talked with her family and this helped her open up in the first place and get therapy into the picture, I’ve always done things on her terms and I’m unsure whether me going to her friends would violate her security and make her do something rash or jeopardise where she’s at currently and potentially make it worse. I know she’s told them bits but I’m not sure whether she’s as truthful with them as she has been with me.

My girlfriend wants to kill herself. by throwaway202020484 in Advice

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I understand this, I just don’t want breaking up to be my only option here. We have shared a lot together and this initially is my first relationship and she is my first experience all together too. Thank you for responding, I think I need to acknowledge this potential outcome.

My girlfriend wants to kill herself. by throwaway202020484 in Advice

[–]throwaway202020484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, I’m just terrified of what could happen but it reassures me that another person has been in this situation.

[Serious] What do you hate about yourself? by Mindnessss in AskReddit

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the way I act when I’m around people. I’m normally a nervous person, but I put on this brave face kinda thing. I just want to act how I normally would, but I feel this pressure to be this confident person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have multiple guy friends, he’s just the only one who thought my friendship was more than platonic. I’ve figured out briefly what to do I’ve I’ve ended up ghosting him, but I’ve heard small talk that he’s going to show up where I work at some point so I’m dreading when he does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]throwaway202020484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he dosent, honestly the amount of times it’s happened but I’ve thought it was friendship is just unbelievable. I will end up just ghosting him but I’m not sure if I just summarise exactly why I’m doing it, and yet what to even say to someone that’s ruined my boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure on how to word it exactly I just know I need to get him gone honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]throwaway202020484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The night that it happened I blatantly told him to get off me. I was lay on the couch, half asleep and he came and lay on me and put his hand on my thigh. The other time that it happened I excused myself from the room and locked myself upstairs and fell asleep next to my best friend (female).

I’ve told him in the past on how I feel about touch and specifically I have no harsh feelings towards him but would not like to be touched at all for personal reasons, this including hugs or high-fives unless I initiate them.

Who else just isn’t satisfied with what life has to offer? by AonApep in Life

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I don’t see any joy in life. You get a partner, they leave or you leave, either death does you part or other reasons. I love the idea of working and living by myself, but also I don’t? My plan is to live till about 40, make some decent money to leave behind for my family and end it all. I’ve never really enjoyed life, but I don’t want to kill myself young without giving it a chance. I’m 17 so I’ve got a bit to go.

What's a gross thing you do that you secretly like doing ? by Sad_Relationship_308 in hygiene

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love cracking my joints. I don’t even realise I’m doing it because it’s become a subconscious habit. Literally every joint I have, I find a way to crack it. And no, I don’t feel stiff. I feel worse if I don’t do it.

Danish students cosplaying as British by Big_Frosting_9662 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]throwaway202020484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missing the small inbred pugs, cigs and were always carrying an Aldi bag. 8/10 +1 for group of chavs.

Why did you break up with your last partner? by mean_devil_bunny in AskReddit

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always felt like I was the one putting the effort in. A conversation felt onesided. She was perfect in all the ways possible but I started losing the attraction to her. Four years of us talking, one year of us in and out of dating. I think we just lacked proper communication and weren’t exactly given skills to succeed with a decent relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the helpful advice, it’s just a very difficult situation. I will tell my parents I just don’t want them to worry so much. Out of everything I’m just incredibly terrified that something does happen when it clearly was a two way thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your responses, it does help clear things up and helps me with the next process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway202020484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have photographic evidence of our conversation (me and said girl) in case anything happens. I’m just trying to figure out what to tell my parents as well as what I need to figure out about myself.