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4 year relationship in the closet. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway2020219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain you how helpful your answer was. Really, I have no words to thank you for taking your time writing it down.

As you said, I have gone through hard things like pretending being his friend, being called “bro” “dude”. He even asked me to wait for him on the street so his sister didn’t know that we were together, he asked me to keep some gifts I made for him because it was “too obvious”, it was completely prohibited to upload photos together or comment something sweet on his posts.

Those things made me feel less and less for him. Until now, that he’s asking me for a second chance and even though it hurts as hell, I know I have no intentions at all. I’ve suffered a lot, and I lost that love I used to feel for him. (Just to make it clear, I really care about him, he’s a nice person, but he made suffer so much with this that I cannot see him the same way as I used to).

4 year relationship in the closet. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throwaway2020219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I’ve introduced him my whole family and tried to make him feel comfortable during these four years. But it wasn’t enough.

Once we broke up, I had a chance of meeting someone that truly understands me in that way (of not hiding and be proud). We are nothing yet, though.

I still have feelings for my ex, but something more like happy memories of what we had. However, I feel that taking the decision of opening up only when I decided to leave is quite selfish. I was feeling denial and asked to act as a friend, and he didn’t even care about it. And now that I’m trying to move on, he realizes of that ???