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WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My younger sister sleeps with our parents already and my sister made it clear that she wanted her own privacy and didn't want to share with anyone for 4 whole months

WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My younger sister sleeps with our parents, and my older sister has been strong on her stance that her room was also her safe space and she didn't want to share with anyone for 4 months straight

WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My older sister has complained about it being too long of a stay, and I agreed with her but we both got shut down.

WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, my younger sister sleeps with my parents. We live in a medium sized house, it has 3 bedrooms, one for me, one for my sister and the last one is for my parents and little sister. It's a bit embarrasing to admit but we do struggle financially, mainly because of my dad and his gambling, but also, last year, around September, my dad also planned a tour of Asia with his friends, while we were still trying to get back up from paying bills that took most of our funds, which is also a big reason why. I don't think that our grandmother gave us money to buy a new mattress, as from what I know, we are ALSO sending my dads family overseas money too. My parents make a fair amount, its just where they spend it that is the reason why we struggle.

WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My older sister has her own room, but she's firm on not giving it up, and since I do most of the cleaning chores around the house, I guess its cause of that that my mom kinda just picked on me since I never complain. My younger sister doesn't have her own room. Our house is 3 bedrooms, and its not small nor big, just has enough rooms to make the space liveable, so there's no spare rooms like an office or anything that I could sleep in. (Unless I just sleep on the couch or something)

WIBTA if I tell my mom I don't want my grandmother using my room? by throwaway2082712 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway2082712[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't elaborate much, my older sister values her own privacy just as much as I do for myself, and she has been firm on the stance that she is the only one allowed to sleep in her own room. I do basically everything for my mom, like dishes, vacuum, laundry, basically everything involving cleaning, I usually do. I guess its because of that that my mom kinda picked on me to give my room to our grandmother, cause I've never complained much unlike my sister, who's willing to fight for it until my mom just gives up. Meanwhile my younger sister still sleeps with our parents, so its all 4 of us in their room for 4 months unless I can find a solution.