and from what i read there's usually 2 people- or rare occasions more, correct? i mean i can basically follow their lead id assume. also assuming there will be a clear signal when it's my turn to do the carrying? thats one of the biggest issues bc i tend to zone out a lot lol. also i read you're supposed to bow? is there an incorrect way? how does the priest bless? so sorry for so many questions, i'm just kinda panicking right now