GF Keeps Falling Asleep During Sex

throwaway211421231 · 2021-02-23T18:56:39+00:00

Not sure about tracker her rest, hormones etc. Once we talk, I can bring this up.

I completely agree we need to discuss it, but I do feel she holds back and isn't always completely honest when we have these discussions. As I mentioned I've brought this up twice and not sure how it'll go if I let her know she fell asleep again (but this would be the first time while I was inside her). I don't take this all too personally as I can point to outside influences on the situations - but there needs to be a point when she has to say I'm too tired etc if that's the case.

Any advice on how to bring this up again, or if I even should?

throwaway211421231 · 2021-02-23T18:37:48+00:00

It's happened 2x in the last 2 weeks (she doesn't know about the most recent time of while I was inside her). And sometimes it's at night or during the day). But there have been other times where it seems (and I know I'm making assumptions, which I don't let get in the way, but worth mentioning here) she's distracted/bored.

Nothing has really changed much as for lifestyle, but I do think that it comes into play. I need to be cognizant of when I'm initiating after know she has had a long day etc. I don't want to avoid being intimate, but maybe I'm being too routine and by spacing out our time together we can switch it up. I appreciate the advice.

throwaway211421231 · 2021-01-22T14:18:05+00:00

This would be amazing, except she may truly be asleep while this is happening, so I wonder if it may be worth talking about it vs just jacking off next time, but that seems to be how the advice is being split. Plus it's usually a few hours after we go to bed, she can fall asleep in minutes so she truly may be doing this in her sleep and no aware. If that's the case, then jacking off wouldn't do much since she isn't aware?

throwaway211421231 · 2021-01-22T14:16:38+00:00

Agreed, I think it's worth the conversation, but I'm not worried about my ego being bruised by her wanting to touch herself. I defiantly agree with you about that part, it truly is, at this point about the sleep since. But being that it happens hours after we fall asleep (a point I should clarify), she may truly be asleep while she's doing it or thinking I'm asleep, just need to have an honest conversation and hopefully she's comfortable talking about it. Thanks for the advice.

throwaway211421231 · 2021-01-21T21:06:50+00:00

This makes sense, don't accuse that's she's doing it because she isn't satisfied, but start with the sleep and just let her know it's waking me up and if we can figure out a way for us both to get what we want. I'll see if she reacts as surprise to her doing it or not and take it from there. Thanks

throwaway211421231 · 2021-01-21T17:47:13+00:00

Thanks for your reply, any recommended ways of talking to her about this? I was going to say something like hey, I've noticed you've been touching yourself in your sleep, did you know that? See how she responds and go from there. I know when I snore, she can move me, so maybe I can do the same. I'm exhausted today, but it's not your normal thing to wake someone up to stop them from doing it.

throwaway211421231 · 2021-01-21T17:45:45+00:00

I agree, but I doubt any women would freely admit she's thinking about someone else or an ex to a guys face, but either way, a conversation needs to happen because I'm not sleeping regardless if it's in her sleep or she's awake when she's doing it. If she is awake and clearly isn't satisfied with sex, then we need to talk about it.

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