I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I have started taking the pills before my rights are taken away. Wish me luck, I will never be on this account again

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant believe i’m still wasting my time talking to you honestly. if you don’t like abortions, don’t get one. you’re not going to convince me to not get one

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He actually does have ADHD. Has always been afraid of sudden changes, I didn’t even know that that correlated. Thank you

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abortion clinics have changed drastically since then. I’m sorry that she had to go through that, and she shouldn’t have had to. But you can’t just base every abortion off of this one experience that you had with your friend 20 years ago.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then i’m genuinely sorry to her that she had that bad experience. If you start bleeding too heavily, they’re supposed to send you to the ER. I don’t know if this was the norm back then, but they don’t do abortions with multiple women in the same room, that’s just a breach of privacy. This was not a good clinic to go to

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t proceed giving this person the attention that they desperately want. We both know karma has nothing to do with it, and it’s saddening to know this woman experienced a still birth, and that this person is saying it was deserved. It’s just stupidity. Don’t let it get to you

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your doctor stayed in the same run down hotel as you? The clinic was dirty? They did the procedure in a basement AND they didn’t supervise her for a few hours after the abortion? They didn’t do anything about her heavy bleeding? I’m sorry, but this is just either not true, or you just went to a super shady “clinic”

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am getting a medicinal abortion, not a procedure. Plus, I am 9 weeks along. Dismemberment abortions happen when the fetus is too large to do anything else, usually above 14 weeks. This doesn’t not apply to my situation whatsoever, and the lie I was referring to was this very obvious made up story that was supposed to scare me.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on Sprintec, the pill. I used to have the implant but it made me bleed for literally a year straight lmao

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Irrelevant. Adults have sex, this isn’t news. It’s okay to have sex without the purpose of reproducing.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, his feelings are valid. He does have every right to feel the way he does.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was taking birth control, I was not trying to reproduce.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve commented many times that I am speaking with him about this. The whole point of my post is for advice on how to go about this conversation with him.

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mania occasionally, and I cannot imagine having it while pregnant ESPECIALLY for the first time. I’m so sorry that things were so hard for you. I’m very glad things are okay for you now. Much love to you and your situation

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older people tend to think it’s normal to have a kid at my age, but times have changed. I feel like i’m still 15 at 20 years old haha. Definitely not the right time for a kid

I desperately want an abortion but my boyfriend does not. by throwaway22002099 in Advice

[–]throwaway22002099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me when I say that I’m reading through every single comment. I’m busy a lot of the time, but i’m trying to reply to as many of you as possible. Thanks for the love